February 4, 2023 at 9:00 pm #135476
Same as anyone else: Just Ask assuming it isn’t clear by some indicator (their name, how they refer to themselves, etc.). If they don’t understand that you are trying to be respectful, it isn’t your problem.
”What pronouns would you prefer that I use?”
Personally, I really don’t like it when people feel that they have preface a question, such as:
”Can I ask you something personal?”
“I have a question, but it’s OK if you don’t want to answer.”
GEEZ, just ask the freaking question already!?!?