Jessica:
If you choose to read some of these books, I think one thing will be apparent. There are many roads to town. There is no particular formula or method regarding how we live our lives and settle into the groove that we believe defines us and is appropriate for us. It all comes down to what we believe fits and is appropriate for us. Further, it isn’t cast in stone. As we live more and learn more, we may find that some adjustments are needed. Often it is an evolution and we shouldn’t be afraid to do that. In my case, over a period of 25-30 years, I went through some noticeable changes in how I viewed myself. The progression was gay > bisexual > crossdresser > non-binary transgender women. As many have said, and I do also, it is a journey…
