February 15, 2023 at 3:26 pm #135775
I’m so happy for you moving forward and are happy. The loss of your wife and particularly your kids is sad but understanding. Many x’s try to turn the kids against the spouse to punish the spouse. Many times, the kids decide to make up their own minds and reach out to their parent to re-bond. they do not feel hatred so try to stay connected as best possible with the kids without being pushy. They may just reach out in time. They need to understand you had to do what you did, not wanted to. It was a matter of life or death.