I apparently voted and can’t remember but probably TG and both.
I don’t remember replying either. But definitely my sexual identity is female. My sexuality is another matter. Right now I lean towards men and in reality I’ve only ever been with one woman who I married. But when I was younger I was very attracted to women. Definitely in love with a few.
But they had no interest in me sexually or relationship wise. Looking back I suspect they wisely saw me who I am or simply gay.
I saw myself as bi and a cd so I tried to meet men as a woman rather naively.
I found out of course, men, even men attracted to us, just want sex. That’s ok. Men are men. I tried the gay route but gay men like men. They didn’t need me dressed as a womam
So really I need a man or a woman who is comfortable with me and who I am.
Sex would be nice, male or female. Actually just intimacy,cuddles,kisses would be nice. None of which my wife offers.
I may say I prefer men right now but I’d be happy if my wife just spontaneously hugged or kissed me tomorrow.
Not so complicated really.
A bit sad though.