Would I want to be a house wife?
Yes, I’ve always dreamed of being a house wife.
Would I want my wife to become the man of the house?
No, I’m not married, but I do want a husband, so this is complicated
I effectively became a housewife. I didn’t dream of being a housewife. I thought I wanted to be a fighter pilot when I was younger.
But there were or are no fighter pilots in Ireland. I was deluded anyway.
But it came naturally to me. I really felt I’d found my niche in life. I felt so comfortable in the role. More than that my sisters in law frequently used me as a babysitter and I mean babies also older children. I would regularly stay overnight in their houses. Also my own sisters would ask me to babysit.
Stop and think about it for a moment. Would you ask a man to stay overnight in your house with your young daughter or indeed son.
But I suppose instinctively they knew I was safe.
They never say anything although occasionally there’s a comment.
Recently I drank too much wine at a get together with her family. My wife was furious the next day because she said I was giving myself away.
Well I think they worked it out already even if they say nothing.
My wife has six sisters. I have four. They know me. It’s almost unsaid but also three of my four sisters know about me as, if not trans but a CD.