Thank you so much for starting this important thread!
Actually, I’m still trying to figure out whether I want bottom surgery or not. This is the one thing I’m not sure about. Do the pros (passing more easily) outweigh the cons? I need to hear more from other trans women who have been through it, and what worked for them and what didn’t.
Regardless, I definitely would like a more feminine voice, feminine facial features, hips, breasts, and an altogether softer, more feminine appearance. As such, I’m planning to get plastic surgery to make my face more feminine, as well as breast implants. Maybe because I learned in high school that the penis and clitoris are analogous, I haven’t had the same dysphoria about my lady parts as I have about other bodily features.