I am Roxanne. Welcome! I too am new here, and am also confused about all of this, and would adore some semblance of reality, acceptance, and satisfaction in being Roxanne! Confusing all this is the fact that I am 75 years og age! But, I still want to be Roxanne! Some have even told me I am cute! Oh I wish that were only true! Anyway, I wrote all of this to tell you that there are others (at least me!) who also live in a mixed up, confusing world!
Your BFF, Roxanne