Maybe you need to try to understand she married a man, she is not lesbian, and has trouble understanding your desires. Maybe she needs to understand you have gender issues that need to be understood by her and decide after much learnings, if she wishes to participate. I think you both could try some counselling by a good gender therapist if staying together is important to you both.
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