Coming out is different for each of us. Over 4 years ago I accidently let my EX find out my ‘secret’. The first thing she did was to tell our 3 grown kids, then she threatened to tell my 4 brothers. Over the following year I told my brothers myself. I had my now long hair colored (4 times now), have had my nails done for over 2 years. For a year and a half I have been going to my doctor as Cassie. went to my dentist as Cassie and even gone to my Church as Cassie for the last month. I don’t think they were suprized at church, with my done up nails, long hair pierced ears and the fem clothes I have been wearing. So for myself I am ready to present as Cassie 24/7. I guess this makes me trans???