I’ve been “transitioning” for nearly two years now, next month makes two full years since my fem side finally came out.
I dress femininely as much as possible, if I’m at home I’m always dressed as Lucia. I only downplay it when I have to go out or someone is coming round.
I have no desire to go back to how I was before, I intend to go forwards. Just in very small steps! I completely agree “the actual transformation happens in your mind.” Itll take time to fully adjust I guess since Im still early in all this, having only properly dealt with it for two years. (Before hand I didn’t know it was gender issues. I just thought I was weird).
Thanks for the advice ladies😀. I’ll try to think positive and believe in myself.