I find greater satisfaction and, ergo, self-acceptance and reassurance in my identity by controlling my body with my own mind than I would if I wore a chastity device. Since I was young, I hated the mistake between my legs and hoped that I would wake up one day and be who I really am, a woman. I feel chastity, for me, would remind me constantly of what’s, unfortunately, there versus wearing a gaff and feeling feminine. I would like to know more about why you want to wear a chastity device. If it is to control erections and sexual release, which can contribute to dysphoria, you may want to try muffing. I recently learned about it and wish I had started years ago.