Thank you for the wonderful idea Sophie. I am taking the first steps in finding clothes that work. Thrifting helped fill some gaps in my closet.
The hair is a hard topic. I am working up the nerve to get it done. I have had such incongruent feeling about it that I have a hard time ever getting it cut. I am balding to the point it makes bangs look like a comb forward. But I have some ideas and the wife and I are trying to get to the shop together soon.