Well I was raised in shame by my mother but my Busha / grandmother would allow me to dress and actually kept a pair of shoes with old nylons stuffed in the toe for me in the back corner of her closet.
<b> I was born Intersex so things were a bit different but I will say for every hour my Busha allowed me to dress, my mother would rip all the happiness away with one simple insult. She did it in front of my brothers for insulting effect, then watched my older brothers tear me apart verbally and physically. When enough was enough I simply ran to Busha whom lived with us many times. She moved out and / or got kicked out by my mother many times for sticking up for me. I was tortured the so now I live as Tia without excuse nor explanation.</b>
Lemons / Lemonade IDK I will say it changed me for a better future