August 28, 2020 at 3:47 pm #88231
Anonymous
If I were on the other side of the desk I would much prefer bei g asked straight out. “Do you have a preference when it comes to pronouns?” Or something similar. I am not precious about answering a genuine enquiry, and I use feminine pronouns, but I prefer to be known by my name than by a pronoun.
In my experience it causes more offense to try not to cause kffense than it does to ask a straight question, if you see what I mean