Reply To: Physical dysphoria

Shelley Egan


I’m new here but have been I guess transgendered all my life, I am 59 yo, about 13 years ago I went to counceling and took estrogen for about two years and finally stopped because I have the most wonderful wife a decided to just tough it out with this wonderful lady, she did not care for my transitioning but she still loved me. Any gast forward to today, about 2 months ago I was diagnosed with penile cancer and was circumcised. I hate the way it feels, it rubbs and hurts all the time and I want the cancer gone. After a lot of disscution with my wife she agree’s with whatever I want to do, so, what I really would like is total srs but would settle for vulvoplasty , no dept vigina. My problem is I cannot find my therapist, with time running out for me. If the cancer advances too far I will lose the gland, so no clit cam be made. Plus I still will live as a nonbionary man even though I have pretty big man boobs. Does anyone have any suggestions on what course to take and also a good therapist. I think my Drs will not or cannot do what I want and be hell bent on saving something I’ve wanted rid of all my life. A woman can have her breast off as a cancer preventitve but will they do the same for a male with the penis. Thank you all for listening.

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