I am small and can find shoes of all kinds, including heels that put me “up” in the world. But, almost every real woman that I encounter ask, “how can you walk in those things?” FYI, women today don’t wear heels. They go for comfort. So, you too should wear comfortable shoes. At 6’ 1”, you don’t need any more height.
Even with 4 inch heels, I’m only 5’6”. You are already tall and beautiful. Accept it, please.