I would be open to chatting on zoom sometime. Do you have a zoom account? Some of your challenges I cannot relate to. I have never had hair on my chest, back or arms. I shaved once under my arms and no hair has regrown. And I need to shave my legs only every several weeks. But other areas of transitioning I can relate to. From different types of Estradiol pills and patches to side effects to trying to deal with family issues. How you can find a gender therapist and get your HRT letters to different types of surgery.