Hello Cora. I was in your position 3 years ago. Unfortunately, I never got the support from my wife. Finally after 3 years she is pushing for a divorce. The transition journey is a difficult one and you will need as much support as possible. Be glad your wife is supporting you.
The transition process takes time so don’t be worried about the unknowns in your life. Take each step one at a time and it will be much easier. We all transition on a different time schedule so don’t worry about someone that transitions slower or quicker.
Best wishes for your transition journey.