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DeeAnn Hopings
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Yes it will happen when it happens, and for me I feel it has happened twice before and I let the door shut, so now it is happening again and don’t want to let the door shut again in my face, all this just makes it so much worse, the dysphoria gets worse each time as well as it gets harder to come out each time, because you feel you are looked at like some stupid person that don’t know what they want out of life, when in turn you really do, but others will not accept it

For some reason, I often think of the world in terms of quotes, song lyrics and other text. After reading your message, what came to mind for me was a song that Rick Nelson did back in the day called Garden Party. The particular passage was:

Well, it’s alright now,
I learned my lesson well,
You see, you can’t please everybody,
So you got to please yourself…

We spend so much time and effort trying to live up to someone else’s expectations of us. Unfortunately the person that we want to be and need to be gets lost in the shuffle. I won’t say that it is easy, but it is honest.

A most recent phrase would be simply:

Don’t Be Them,
U B U…

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