Hi Dee Ann,
honestly I really don’t know. We have been together for over 46 years she was always ok with my crossdressing even encourage it to a degree but has never wanted to see me fully dressed. My guess would be she would be ok with me taking hormones but would not want me to go all they way and present as a woman full time. I think that would be a problem if other new especially our family’s.
The reason I asked is that for MANY spouses, accidental revelations can feel like the worst kind of betrayal. That kind of situation can morph into something really ugly and may have an impact on the health of the relationship.
As the phrase goes, Shit Happens…