This is lovely Carly!
Remember also that some cis girls are tall, some have broad shoulders, some have muscles (who’d have thought…?)
I’m still very early in my journey but what I’ve learned is that there’s as many ways to do this as there are folks doing it. You have to find a way to be you.
happy holidays for those who are celebrating
take care and stay safe
I so agree with you, it’s different for everybody. I’ve found as a tall Trans person with wide shoulders and big feet/hands, it’s all about how one carries oneself. I’ve found transitioning that my natural instinct was to behave in a feminine way. Once I got over having to be male all the time I started getting gendered female, even without putting any effort into ‘passing’. As much as being tall is a challenge for any woman, for us tall girls the walk and the talk are important ways to appear feminine to CIS folks…