Hello Diana. Welcome to this site. You are in a good place to get some help with your questions. Your desire to expand the female things that you do as time passes is very common. It is part of gender dysphoria. I know many trans individuals and only 1 of them has indicated that she has never had gender dysphoria.
As time passes, gender dysphoria usually increases in intensity and pushes us to increase our female side. Unfortunately, few wives appreciate that we have little control over what is happening to us and our need to increasingly live our true self is not a nice thing to do but it is survival for us.
I recommend you watch the YouTube videos of Dr. Z PHD. She has over 50 short videos and not all will apply to you but she explains many of the things you are experiencing. She is a trans gender therapist in the Los Angeles area and has several thousand trans patients.