Hi:
Glad you found your way to our doorstep. Don’t worry. We’re all housebroken. Well, most of us anyway!?!?
Seriously, though, many here have been where you are now. I won’t say that it is easy, but the good news is that it is survivable.
I did a bit of searching and found a couple of things:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/gay/wi/appleton?sid=5ffd1ecf9ae3c&spec=1712
Although the heading is Gay Therapists, there are folks who have experience with gender issues.
https://www.mkelgbt.org/
They have some trans-specific programs. Their gatherings are all over ZOOM these days, so it doesn’t matter that you are not that close.
I also want to encourage you to complete your Profile page. It helps people to understand your situation better. Under “Social” in the menu is a link to the “Member Directory”. There you can search for other members from Wisconsin…