Good morning ladies,
My wife is in this spot also and after many times of working overtime so she wouldn’t have to come home.
We’ve came to some compromises
Buying women’s clothes, turns out she felt left out and now… Even though she feels uncomfortable sometimes, she now feels included just by going with me shopping.
The dressing up, I agreed to dress up in house, outside will be normal women’s pants and stuff, no dresses for 1 year to let her come to terms I had my whole life, she deserves more than a day.
Sex, this one was… Hard, I had to convince her, I do not like guys. And once she figured that out, I asked her to treat me like she would like to be treated in bed and she now says, she feels closer to me than ever before emotionally and physically.
She has decided to look at the good things and to reserve judgement on what she might think is bad… And so far, she’s finding the bad is actual good for our relationship