February 5, 2021 at 2:46 pm #93661
Hi:
Were you in the FTM Chatroom? It is a separate one intended for the FTM membership.
Also, I encourage you to complete your Profile page. It is a great tool for helping other members to understand what is happening for you, what you are struggling with and your aspirations are.
You can also search for other members from Oregon by clicking on Social in the menu and then Member Directory. That will take you to the search utility.