Yes finding clothing can be pretty daunting. One of my favorites right now is Stitch Fix (stitchfix.com). If you willing to spend a little more they assign a stylist to you. You give them your measurements and communicate styles that you feel look good on you. I’ve let my stylist know I’m non binary. They send you a box of clothing that your stylist picks out for you. You try on the clothes. Whatever doesn’t work you send back.
It’s pretty painless and I get some wonderful clothes from stores I’d rather at this moment not have to shop in. Personally I love it, every other month I am so excited to see what they have picked for me. I’ve acquired now a wonderful wardrobe. They have everything from clothes to shoes to accessories like purses and jewelry.
The box has the stitch fix logo but is unrevealing. As others have stated I’d open a mail box somewhere like a ups store that will keep your large packages. Then you can pick it up whenever you need.
Hope this helps.