The vast majority of us have come to the same crossroads at one point or another. It is an important question that requires an answer and it isn’t a simple one. As a piece of information, many here have found working with a therapist very helpful. The human mind will often play all sorts of tricks on us to avoid situations where there may be considerable upheaval in our lives. Considering transitioning can have that effect and it may become difficult to maintain focus on what needs to be thought about. A therapist experienced in gender issued can help that situation from a position of objectivity.
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