Michael, being MtF myself, I can only offer my care and understanding, albeit virtually. He is lucky to at least have someone like you that cares deeply for him. I know it is a lot to bear, but from just the few short words you wrote in your posting, he is in good hands.
But do check out the Social -> Member Directory, you can search for other people that may be near by. Or under Places -> Local Places, you can search for all sorts of things that may be near you. There may be something in there that can be of help. I don’t know, but…. I wish you both the best of wishes, and the warmest of hugs. Michelle