Glad that you found us! I trust that being here will be everything that you hope.
You are right in that having a family does complicate things. However, there are folks who have made it work. For me, the takeaway is that if they can do it, so can you! Certainly every situation is different, but there are possibilities.
I really appreciate you completing the Profile page. That helps other members understand what is going on for you, what’s good and where you might struggle. You can also update it at any time as things change for you.
Also, we have the same sort of search utility here that’s on CDH if you want to look for other members…