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I hope by posting this I can help someone sort out their feelings. I asked myself many many questions before I transitioned but these are the 3 biggest and most important I think. At least they were for me. They might not be for someone else but who knows.
Question 1: If I don’t transition can I go the rest of my life wondering “what if I transitioned” or saying “I wish I transitioned”?
My Answer: No. I believe to live with no regrets in life because we only get one.
Question 2: Do I get aroused when wearing women’s clothing or is this a sexual thing?
My Answer: No. I never once got aroused when wearing women’s clothes. Instead sometimes when I would wear women’s clothes (even sometimes still) I would cry because I wanted this so much. This being to be female. And I also cried because I was afraid that I might never be able to transition for many reasons.
Question 3: Can I keep letting my daughter randomly see me cry and constantly be sad?
My Answer: No. She deserves a parent who is happy because then she’ll be happy. I was also worried about her being ridiculed but after I came out her mother and I talked and she told me that if she is ridiculed it isn’t my fault. I tend to blame things on myself that aren’t even close to being my fault or that I have no control over.
I hope someone finds this post helpful.
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