Coming out to parents

This topic contains 5 replies, has 3 voices, and was last updated by  CC Webb 3 days ago.

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  • #53128

    Savannah Hughes
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    As an 18 yr old girl at heart how do I come out to parents that are against transgender people. Should I come to them dressed up as a Girl and proclaim it? or should I sit down with them in boy clothes.

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  • #53177
     CC Webb 
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    Hi Savannah.  I agree with Marianne.  You already know they are against it and you need to count the real risks that may come from a very negative response now that you are of adult age.

    • #53181
       Savannah Hughes 
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      I am concerned that If I do not do it in full girl mode they will not take me seriously. I know the end result wont be good I just need to do it.

      • #53191
         CC Webb 
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        MANAGING AMBASSADOR

        Please talk this over with a counselor first.  Just being blunt, you need to be prepared for the worst.  They may tell you to leave and all that could entail like witholding housing, funding, college, support, whatever you count on them for.   You know them better than us, but we’ve seen/heard bad things happen.

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     Marianne Tornander 
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    Dear Savannah,

    From your question I understand that your parents have some sort of aversion against transgendered persons. I would therefore recommend you to raise the subject veary gently on them. Turning up unexpectedly in full girl mode could possibly initiate reactions that make a polite discussion impossible.

    Good luck dear

    Marianne Tornander

  • #53144
     Savannah Hughes 
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    Hello anybody there

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