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<p style=”text-align: center;”>i recently came out as a trans women to my girlfriend of six months and she handled it really well. she was the first person i’ve ever told and it was just so liberating and reliving. but i have these thoughts linger in my head every day:</p>
– she’s not lesbian, so will she be attracted to me after i transition? after hormone therapy?
-she fell in love with me as a man, will she still see me as one always?
-although she’s accepting and understanding, i still feel like she expects a masculine role from me in our relationship which leaves little room for me to be feminine
-we’ve only been dating six months, and she is already getting in huge fights with her family regarding my gender… is it worth it? is my gender identity worth jeopardizing her family life?
-i love this woman but i feel like such a burden. is it healthy to put my relationship with her on break and just be friends while i come out/transition? the last thing i want to do is break her heart.
this is my first post so i’m sorry if i’m using this site incorrectly, i’m just desperate to find people to talk to who understand the struggle i’m facing
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