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    Steffanie James



    I’m Steffanie, I have been crossdressing for as long as I can remember. Recently I realized my true self is Steffanie.  My wife is somewhat accepting, but is still processing the realization, which is appropriate. I am also starting therapy to wrap my head around the realization and to walk through next steps. I’m excited and terrified all at the same time.

    I’m hoping to meet others in the same situation!

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    • #110735
      DeeAnn Hopings


      Welcome and I hope being here will be a good experience!

      You touched on some familiar topics here: crossdressing, realizing that you are transgender, reactions from ones spouse and working with a therapist. While the details of our journeys differ, there are many common aspects.

      Thanks for completing your Profile page! I usually have to remind new members. It does help other members to understand where you are and where you are going.

      Also, if you would like to search for nearby members, click of Social in the menu and then Member Directory.

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    • #110618
      Terri Anne

      Hi Steffanie,

      Welcome to our wonderful, accepting, loving, helpful community where you can be safe and be yourself.

      You can read about the knowledge and experiances of others on a similar path by reading articles and in the forums and chatting in chat rooms.
      My hope is that you will become comfortable here and make many new friends.

      Glad you are here. Looking forward to more sharing,
      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #110602

      It sounds like you’re in the right frame of mind, Steffanie. I know that when I was beginning my transition, I was both excited to see what was coming and also feeling terrified of what could happen. Admittedly, I probably had the easiest transition possible, since it just involved HRT and no surgery seemed to be needed for me to fit in as a woman. This was fortunate, since my health situation made any kind of surgery inadvisable. /shrugs In any case, I would be glad to talk with you if you’d like it. 🙂

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    • #110596

      I was very after some initial problems we worked out our problems. It did cause a great deal of heart ache. 6 years later she supports my transition.
      Give your wife the time and space she needs and hopefully all will work out.

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