- January 6, 2023 at 1:34 am #134713
Hi, I’m Karla and after 20+years of questioning my gender identity I’ve finally accepted myself and the fact I’m transgender. I’m very new and haven’t actually started any steps yet. I’m still learning alot of basics I.e. make up clothes that go together and the like. I’d love to chat to and get to know like minded individuals.
- January 6, 2023 at 2:00 am #134714Stephanie LindsayFREE
Hi Karla, on my journey too and love to keep in contact ;)💃
- January 6, 2023 at 5:17 am #134716JAKe HatmacherFREE
I know everyone is different. You sound convinced of being assigned to the wrong gender at birth. At what age did you start questioning whether you were? 20 years is a long time. What has held you back? Do you and did you need to put on an act to appear male?
I asked myself these and a lot more questions before starting on my journey to meld myself into a body which can pass as a typical woman here in the U.S. I still question my need to go through all the trouble and expense and risk to appear feminine. Reason being, shouldn’t we all act as our spirit was meant to be regardless of the skin covering us?
I needed…my own decision…to visit a psychological specialist trained in transgender issues to help me make sure I wasn’t simply crazy before I started hormones and the other physical changes. There was a series of sessions before I was told I wasn’t crazy and I became convinced I needed to start my new journey.
So, as I said, we are all different, but you may want to consider seeing a professional who has interest in this subject before getting on in your journey.
- January 8, 2023 at 2:02 am #134761
<p style=”text-align: right;”>Definitely wrong gender, honestly society and I lived in a small town where violence against the lgbt community was a regular occurrence. But work had me trapped there I recently transferred and can am finally free to be me. I definitely will I don’t know if hormones will be q go my lover has been damaged by years of alchoholism</p>
- February 2, 2023 at 7:35 pm #135442𝕋𝕖𝕣𝕣𝕚 𝔸𝕟𝕟𝕖🌸MANAGING AMBASSADOR
Please excuse me – way behind on my greetings..
Welcome to our wonderful, accepting, loving, helpful community where you can be safe and be yourself.
You can read about the knowledge and experiances of others on a similar path by reading articles and in the forums and chatting in chat rooms.
My hope is that you will become comfortable here and make many new friends.
Glad you are here. Looking forward to seeing you on the site.
Terri Anne, Ambassador
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