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So Im pretty worried you guys are going to call me a poser or something, even though this is supposed to be a safe place, but there are a few things I have questions about..
But I guess Ill give some context first, so you can nip this in the bud right at the start if you so desire.
Im biologically a woman, but I grew up all 32 years of my life as a tomboy, who generally only had male friends because I understood them, but I dont understand women.
Ive called myself gender neutral all these years. I have masculine and feminine traits and I dont consider it a bad thing.. Even if I were to become trans I would be at least somewhat effeminate.
When I look at my pictures, where I look like a woman and where Im crossdressing to a small degree, I always prefer the crossdressing pictures better. Honestly I think it sums me up better. I already have a rather masculine face.
Even though Im emotional, my interests are things that are most often considered masculine and I have a good grasp of logic, even though I dont always use it.
I have had a male persona for a long time. I always called him my spirit lover, but I have also felt like we are two halves of the same whole. I dated a lot of men trying to find him in the real world somehow but never did. Deep down I feel like I want to be him.
ok.. now for the questions.. if I look more masculine than feminine but choose to never have bottom surgery am I still trans?
How much are hormones? What exactly do they do? Do they increase sexual interest and desire at all?
How do trans guys get their voices to become so deep? hormones or vocal practice or some combination of the two?
Is there a place where people will give you objective feedback about how well you pass?
I saw on a video about trans men that if you identify as a man, youre a man, and it doesnt get much simpler than that. I found that a huge relief because it all sounds so complicated. Is it true though?
theres more than this, just cant think of them right now.
Sorry this was such a chaotic mess.. Its kind of hard to describe this stuff.
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