how to get threw to someone I’m depressed?

[ayesha lee]

strugglign with trying to accomplish this. the person in question does not want to know and though usually I’d accept this, (not everyone has time for other people’s problems), I  am depressed because of this woman’s actions and I see her quite a lot, so she kind of needs to take it seriously. thanks

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[ayesha lee]

thank you, michelle, I will do what you suggested. in this instance, I think part of what I’m up against is that this person… well: put it this way, if she was chocolate, she would eat herself.

 

she can do nothing wrong in her eyes

 

[Michelle Lawson]

Ayesha, that can sure be a tough one to break through. When the other person just shows no interest in trying to hear you, let alone understand, makes it even worse. Maybe just approach it slowly, with an eye on things that symbolize your feelings, and just talk in general terms about how those situations make you feel. And try to navigate around saying things about how you feel based on what person ‘x’ or ‘y’ does to you. It may take some time, but if they are a good friend, it might be worth it. Hugs, Michelle

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