I need some advice

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  • #114227
    Bobbie W

    Hello sisters,

    I need some help I am just figuring out what’s going on with me. Let me back up I have always felt like I was born in the wrong sex, I have been in denial for so long and now I am embracing this and I figured if I ever want to get HRT I need to see a shrink. I’m ok with that I WANT TO but here comes the issue my masculine carrier is a over the road trucker (key words over the road). I have contacted many therapists and they all inform me I need to be in the state I live in to do ANY therapy. Well I’m only home for a max of 40 hrs a week and that’s on the weekends. I am a complete wreck now, I’m moody, angry, and more depressed then I’ve been in a very long time. I am looking for advice please.


    thank you sisters.

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    • #114368
      DeeAnn Hopings


      I am somewhat surprised that current location appears to be more significant than permanent billing address. Perhaps you might press someone a bit and ask for the specifics. Sometimes it may not be a specific requirement, but something that makes the processing easier for someone.

      Also, the Psychology Today magazine has a searchable database of therapists on their web site. There may be some that you haven’t checked yet. Have you asked about the possibility of Saturday hours? Might be worth a shot…

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    • #114355
      Jessica McGee

      hihi sweetheart..my name is jessica mcgee..michelle asked me to come and see if i could help you with this issue….i was otr for many many years..coast to coast..i too had a hard time finding a therapiest .. when i finaly found one i actualy broke down while it talked to her for the first time on the phone…it all just flooded out… now the way i found her i just got on line with my laptop ( belive it or not ) while in the dock waiting to be unloaded in jersey… i live in florida…i looked up therapiests in my area and called and called and asked each one if they take transexual cliants…i was cursed and hung up on alot  but i kept trying and bingo i found one…. DONT GIVE UP .. being long haul otr… i could dress and be me on the road…. altho i did dress down to go in to shippers and recievers and especialy truckstops,you know how they are im sure,,,when i got my therapiest i always set up appointments for when i would be home and told the company i was leased on to i had a doctors appointment i COULDNT MISS.. she refered me to the doctor that put me on hormones and i was on my way….i’ll be in chat ..hope to meet you there ..and if we miss each other let michelle know and i’ll try to message you here again…. hugs and lots of luck …be safe out there………..jessica

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      • #114366

        Hi Jessica, I know the UW medical clinics in Wisconsin definitely do online therapy,they do video meetings all the time if that is how you want to do your therapy. good luck sweetie.
        here is a phone number for you to call. (608) 282-8270
        Bigg Huggs

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    • #114336

      Hi Bobbie,have you considered a change of career? Do u need to be on the road? Could you settle down in an office environment perhaps at the depot in your home state? Being settled and able to focus on your transition is vital as much as an income. As you can appreciate, one must be totally committed in transitioning, meaning you do what needs to be done for your happiness. Best wishes Bobbi darling🙏

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    • #114245
      Michelle Lawson

      Bobbie, I know I have heard others in the chatroom discussing online therapy. I have never used it, so I can’t be of much help in how that works. But check the chatroom and ask around in there. And if I hear someone bring it up, I will try to remember to check for you and update you. And there are actually several truck drivers that are members here. Michelle

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