I’m new here. How to match my life with my gender preference? Need friends

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    • #134593

      Hi Jens,

      I am in the same boat. Trying to balance real life with who I am. My biggest problem is I am autistic and Mask. I have been doing it for so long some times it is hard to know whats me and what is a mask πŸ™

    • #134581
      DeeAnn Hopings


      I was looking at this thread again and I noticed something. Gay people don’t use the term “sexual preference”. In effect it means that while you prefer one thing, you could also do something else. The term used these days is “sexual orientation”.

      Similarly, for trans people, we don’t think in terms of “gender preference”. We say “gender identity”.

    • #134557

      Hello Jens,

      Welcome to our wonderful, accepting, loving, helpful community where you can be safe and be yourself.

      You can read about the knowledge and experiances of others on a similar path by reading articles and in the forums and chatting in chat rooms.
      My hope is that you will become comfortable here and make many new friends.
      Glad you are here. Looking forward to seeing you on the site.
      Terri Anne, Ambassador

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    • #134478
      DeeAnn Hopings


      Glad that you found us! I trust that being here will be helpful for your journey.

      I would suggest that you see if there are any trans support or social groups in your area. Being able to spend time with ones peers really helps to prevent feelings of isolation. Here in the US many LGBT centers have been doing online gatherings since the pandemic. That can make a big difference regarding time and transportation issues.

      I also suggest that you complete your Profile page as it really helps other members to understand what your situation is. Your page will always be readily available and can be updated at any time.

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    • #134477
      Michelle Lawson

      Welcome to our neck of the world. I do hope you are getting situated and seeing all there is here. Please let me know if you have any questions. Either I, or someone else, will make sure we reply back. I do so hope you will join us in the Chatroom. I enjoy chatting there a lot. If you look in Social -> Member Directory, you can search for other people that may be near by. Or under Places -> Local Places, you can search for all sorts of things that may be near you. Hope to see you chatting soon. Oh, and don’t forget about digging through the Articles and Forums. And check out the Groups, to see if you find one that suits your interests. Loads of information there. And this is a link to some info about navigating the website – https://transgenderheaven.com/forums/topic/tgh-site-resource-listing/. Hugs, Michelle

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