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One of the biggest signs you are trans is dreaming you are your true self, isn’t it? This has always been perhaps the biggest sign that maybe I am not. I can’t think of a single dream where I have ever been a woman, or even worn women’s clothes by choice (there have been naked dreams where they’re just what i find first and are not what I would choose and probably don’t fit!) I have certainly never dreamed of having a vagina. I have however, had many dreams about – for generality’s sake, women with penises. This I always attributed to not being particularly familiar with the female genitalia (the first instance was at 8 years old) as the only time it was with a real woman i knew to be cis was early in my relationship with my wife. Since regular familiarity with the vagina, these dreams have always been about known trans porn stars (surprise, that’s what I prefer!), so it barely seems to count.
As I accept that I probably am trans, I expect this to change, but I have come very, very close to acceptance (let’s call it false acceptance) all throughout my life, yet I have never dreamed as a woman, other than maybe one time. As usual, I feel like I must be alone in this, but I would love to hear otherwise. Anyone else [pretty much] never dream about being their preferred gender?
Hearts and rainbows,
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