I’ve got a dilemma

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    Kris Florida
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    I need your help. My gf knows about my transition, but just won’t talk about it. It’s almost as if she’s just ignoring it.
    mom not sure what to do. I love this woman, and really do believe we are meant to be together, but with her not wanting to even talk about it, I’m very confused.
    Your intro and suggestions are appreciated!

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    • #85750
      Seraphina
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      DM me anytime if you want to chat x

    • #85749
      Seraphina
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      Hey Kris, you have my sympathies. I think my wife is in a similar place. Each of us has to find our own path but I wish you the best for your journey. Remember there’s always a way xx

    • #85729
      Meran Berwyck
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      Wow, I thought this was going to be easy to answer, but…!  Not many cis-women are open to their mates being transgender.  I base this on my last two marriages and other relationships I tried to start.   Based on how you worded your message, I would say she believes if she ignores it long enough, the ‘phase’ will fade away and she will not have to deal with it.  You can do all the explaining possible and they won’t budge.

      You also feel this woman is meant to be with you?  You may be mistaken and do not want to accept it as such.  She may love the man she met, not the transgender woman you prefer to be around her.

      I met a cis-female, I should say she met me on a transgender dating site.  She wrote me and had been in some sketchy relationships, both male and female and figured I would be good for her instead.  Well, 1.5 years later, we’re going strong.  I may still be pre-op, but she accepts me as female.   I feel like a ‘lesbian’ with her that I may have male genitalia, but she calls that a ‘bonus’.  I have been on HRT for four years and it has helped my appearance as well.

      Good luck with your relationship.  I wish the best for you.

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