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Hi all, I’m fairly new here and first time posting. I had RFF phalloplasty, urethroplasty, scrotoplasty, and vaginectomy on Oct 9th 2020 and I have had so many complications. Still in pain daily, primarily nerve pain as I had nerve connection as well, but also from problems with my urethra. I have nerve damage in my hand and pins and needles feeling in hand and fingers. But I can handle that it is more annoying then anything.
Its the daily pain in my scrotum as it prevents me from living life. I have urine leakage from my penis but urinate through a catheter port from my abdomen. My lower right leg and foot is swollen from the nerve reconnect that they took from my leg.
I have been out of work since October but hope to find work soon. I have bills piling up but still unsure how I am going to work with the pain and urine leakage. I am currently living with family and feel like I am a burden and my pride was hurt.
I am resting now for the day and probably tomorrow as well because I can’t take the pain anymore. I have med for nerve pain but it doesn’t erase the pain it just eases it. I have leads on 2 jobs in mental health which is what I have done for the past 20 years and its hard to try to transition into something else. I have been looking at driving jobs because I am usually pain free when driving or have minimal pain. Walking for any distance causes excruciating pain. I think I am just venting and seeing if anyone else has dealt with post surgery complications and what helped you cope. Thanks. Wrigley
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