Ready to be the real me

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    • #140397
      Amy B

      Hello all. I am 45 and I now want to live the way i feel i always have been just never accepted it. I feel its time I live the true me, who I always been.. For far too long i been trying to live like I am a man but I feel living this was it reason I am depressed.. Way back in my school years I use to think I was one of the girls.. They were the ones i seemed to always want to hang out with. I know the people around me family and friends will not accept this think its one reason I never have been open about the real me. I even have a gf now but I feel like I’m more her roommate and friend. I like this site because I can finally meet others who are like me so I will not feel that I am on my own out there

    • #140475

      Hi Amy,

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      Glad you are here. Looking forward to seeing you on the site.
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    • #140480
      Toni Floria

      Hey Amy. Β Welcome there are a lot of smart Β and insightful girls here to help you out Β be you! Β Best regards

      • #140489

        Hello, Amy. I am Roxanne. I recommend you take steps soon, or you may end up as me! I am a 75 year old trans, who now wants to be a woman! Is it too late for me? I sure hope not, but I sincerely believe I would have been better off at your age, instead of waiting this long. But, I do want to be a Lady, and, Lordy, I WILL be one! I adore my femininity, and want to be feminine for the rest of my life! Lord, I love being a woman!
        Your “Later than Never”
        Roxanne Lanyon.
        Love to you all!

        • #140496

          It’s never too late period.


          • #140499

            Thank you, Jill. I appreciate that! I still have a lot of things to reflect on, but, you are correct! i WILL be a woman! I adore being Roxanne!
            This Old Lady,

    • #140502

      Amy,good for you that you’re realizing this now at 45. I was 59 when I determined I was TG. No turning back ever since. I too was an early crossdresser and felt like you that I am more “like” those girls! I want to wear that dress and makeup, etc. I am almost 64 now and have never been happier as when I can be Miss Hope for about 24-36 hours straight. I never want to take off my girl clothes. I hate man clothes.

      But we have to live within our constraints. My wife says no transition during her lifetime!!

      You go girl!


      • #140576

        My wife said the same thing. I wore a bra out shopping in multiple stores. I don’t think she noticed it until we got home. I felt free. Short lived until she said no to transition. I can live with that. But the bra,at least, stays.

    • #140503
      Lauren Mugnaia

      Oh girls, you’ve all got me crying again. I feel your hearts, I know the thoughts that dwell in your souls. I was ready to be the real me so many times but things got in the way over the years. For me it took having to have heart surgery to finally realize it was time to release the woman within, she had always been there from as far back as my memories go, and now it was her turn to live. 19 months ago I transitioned to living as the woman I’ve always felt I was since I was a child, and I can tell you, there isn’t the tiniest shred of regret in taking that journey! I, along with most of you, am an older gal, so there’s a lot of living left to do as the woman I now am. Listen to your hearts, that’s the woman inside of you speaking, pay close attention to her, she is a lovely person!

      Big, big hugs ladies,

      Ms. Lauren M

      • #140504

        Wow, reading all these thoughts convinces me that it is not too late, even for a “girl” like me, at 75! Thank goodness I still can be attractive, in a lady-like sort of way! Honies, I adore being Roxanne, and want to be her forever and ever! Now, I simply wish the rest of the world will accept me, as the woman I want to be! Please?

        • #140577

          Well, this girl doesn’t have a wife to manage me. I am a “free” Lady, so to speak. The only thing that worries me is the thoughts and desires of the so many conservative people in the world who would frown on me being a Lady! Otherwise, it would be “Roxanne” all the way! Really! I simply want to be a Lady! I want to be loved, cared for, and also care for someone else as his woman! I simply want, desire, need to, be the best Lady I can ever be!

          Roxanne Lanyon

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