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Hi all. I am sure I have been and introduced myself before but have been away for a while but am back to seek some help and guidance on how best to unravel this thing I have with female boots and leather.
I have had it since I was 5 and I am obsessed it’s almost controlling in a some ways. I can’t go through a day without wanting to have the chance to wear boots or leather gloves and for many years I simply put this down as a fetish and I guess I still do.
but after a few years of going further and experiencing more in terms i being femme I started to question this notion more and more.
I know there is no easy way to make this black and white but am keen to hear people’s views. It’s the age old question when I see a woman dressed in boots do I fancy her, want to be her or be wearing what she is?
I feel more and more that if I could go out with no fear I would just embrace this but then again I don’t feel like I am obviously female.
what can I do or question to help me understand this. Is this just a kink or am I no cos gender with a fashion preference and or kink.
Any one with similar experiences would love to hear from you.
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