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  • #31449
     Becca Pepper 
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    Hi everyone! I’m Becca, my husband is transitioning to a female full time. I came here in the hopes of some support. This is hard for both of us and our children but we are on the road to his happiness. I’ve known for 4 years, right after our second son was born. At first I decided that I’ll support him in every way but I’m not attracted to women so we can’t be together. After many years and lots of research.. I changed my mind and decided it was stupid to leave over a physical change when he’s still the same person. I have many fears.. for example, what if he wants to be with a man instead one day? ATM we are packing up and moving across the country where people don’t know him as a man.. which is huge and scary.

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    • #31457
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi Becca, thank you for seeing through to your husbands heart.  You are one very special couple and blessed to have each other.  We hope your spouse will join us here as well.  For you there a number of other significant others (SO’s) such as yourself that are here. I’ll have one of our SO leaders reach out to you.
      Hugs, Ambassador Cloe

  • #31444
     Tami C 
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    Hi!

    My name is Tami and I am from South Dakota. Glad to be here and looking forward to chatting/making friends. Hope everyone survived the holidays unscathed (wouldn’t that be nice)! Best wishes for the new year!

    Let’s do virtual coffee soon!

    Love Tami

     

    • #31456
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi Tami we welcome you.  Many of us had a good holiday and some needed the support of  people like us here at TGH.  Fortunately, this year our membership seemed to fair well.  See you around.
      Hugs, Ambassador Cloe

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  • #31443
     Jon Chi 
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    Hi, I’m Jon from the Chicago area.

    Just here to chat and make new acquaintances.  I’m always up to meeting anyone local to hang out, shop, etc.

    I really like this site so far!

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    • #31455
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hello John, we’re pretty good at chat and have some great postings in  the forums and groups and wonderful article written by members just like you.   Best fo all we make good friends around here.  Glad you already like it.
      Ambassador Cloe

  • #30639
     Annie Gallagher 
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    Hi

    I am Annie. I am here to meet new friends whether they be trans or ally. I am an aspiring political activist and I hope to make the world a better place for trans people. I figure I’d start by offering support to any who desire or need it, or who just want it. I’m not complaining either way.

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    • #30659
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Welcome Annie!  Thank you for offering your help.  Getting active in the Forums is probably the best way to get connected with our community followed by chat.  I look forward to seeing you around and getting to know you.

      Ambassador Cloe

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  • #29689
     Jasmin Sweet 
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    Hey im Jasmin 33 of Ohio looking to meet new friends n need advice on transitioning full time

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    • #31445
       Tami C 
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      Hi Jasmine!

      Glad you’re here! I am fairly new here myself but everyone seems to be very kind and loving. I am also fairly new in transition so if you hear any awesome or helpful tips please do share. One thought that i try to keep in mind is that I don’t have to accomplish a complete transition in one day, I remind myself to just love whatever amount of femininity that I have today and maybe tomorrow I will find/express more.

      Hope to hear more from you

      Tami

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    • #30547
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi Jasmin! I’m in transition myself.  You can reach out to me any time.

  • #23238
     Autumn Jackson 
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    I am autumn and I’m 41 and I’m in Pueblo Colorado and I’m not sure what to say about the things that i am going through but i have been wanting to be a girl full time since i was 12

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    • #23620
       Cami Jansen 
      Ambassador

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      Hello and Welcome to TGH Autumn.

      Your among like minded people here so be free to be yourself.

      Pop into chat some time and say Hi.

      Best wishes Cami.

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    • #23273
       Denise Annexstad 
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      Autumn, this is a good place to try and express yourself, if anything I think a lot of girls will be glad to give you good advice on what to do, so please keep your chin up and a smile on your face.

  • #21948
     Anonymous

    Hello ladies and gentlemen,

    I’m pleased to meet you all. I knew i wass in the wrong body at the age of 7 yrs old. I came out when I was in the US ARMY when I was 28. Now at 40, its been a very long struggle to hold on. Ive been disowned by everyone that I know of. Friends, family, so called friends. Hopefully I have found the right place to make friends. I doesnt feel very good being alone.

     

    -Layla Jynsen

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    • #22022
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi Layla.  It breaks my heart when I hear about another sister whose become isolated just for being themselves.  You are among friends now and we’re here to support you in day today life as well as the big decisions.  You just have to reach out.

      Hugs, Cloe

  • #19764
     RobbenWendy 
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    Hello I came out at 14 and again at 40. I am a transitioned transgender female. My records at the clinic say female. I have not had surgery, as an intersexual I doubt I need i. I believe in just being feminine naturally. There is no rule to having to be a part everyday. I have make up but wear it sometimes. I have dresses but wear skirts and women’s shorts and pants. I do wear panties and bras my bust size on hrt defined my transition. I am a happy camper but have to keep my eyes open about bullies living in the Bronx.

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    • #21721
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Robben,
      Sorry I missed this when you first joined.  One step at a time we are changing the worlds perception of who we are.  Bullying is as old as any other form of hate and has very little chance of going away as long as there are humans but getting it to where they’re more afraid to bully than not is an achievable goal.

      Hugs, Cloe

  • #18254
     John Marvin 
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    Just joined Transgender Heaven. First, you should know that I predate computers. Yes, I am that old. Which means I easily get lost dealing with computers now. Next, terminology is confusing. There are 100% males and 100% females, with hundreds of labels for all of us that are inbetween. My doctor calls me a crossdresser, because he is required to place a label. OK. I am male with a lifetime of thinking maybe a mistake was made and I should have been a girl.

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    • #18369
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi John.  Labels are overrated anyway.  I’m happy just being called transgender and consider all the flavors to be one big family to me.

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  • #16202
     jennifer pszzorak 
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    Hi my name is Jennifer Marie and Im a transitioned TG and glad to find this site and makew new friends

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    • #16306
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Hi Jennifer, it’s nice to meet you.  I’m happy you’ve achieved your goal in transition.  Would love to have you share your story with us in an article or a a forum.

      Hugs, Cloe

  • #14307
     Tasmin Janus 
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    Hi all, I am hoping to chat and make friends with like minded people. I am gender fluid and have female urges and needs part of the time, but I am always attracted to other trans people. Look me up and have a chat please! xxx Tasmin

  • #11485
     Lydia Crowell 
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    Hi,

    I signed on a while back but sort of forgot about this. I have been dressing in femme attire since I was a little kid. My sister used to give me here older clothing. I am discrete about things but go out occasionally. Hope to have more to say. I will try to get a picture, but I am not entirely the most pretty of the T-girls in the world.

    Lydia

    • #14487
       Cloe (CC) Webb 
      Managing Ambassador

      MANAGING AMBASSADOR

      Lydia,

      We don’t pass judgement here.  The picture is entirely up to you, but it does help to put a face to a name.  People are just really in tune to visuals.

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  • #8255
     jennifer roberson II 
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    hello ladies and thank you for this sight

     

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  • #5423
     Steph Di Firenze 
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    Hi everyone,

    Like so many here I am just starting on my personal journey to discover who Steph is. I have begun this journey later in life (I’m 58 as I write this) than some, but still looking forward to making new friends and discovering  more about myself in the process. My first experience being en femme (just a couple of years ago now) was such a revelation that I realised I need to be Steph. Hence my TG journey. There have been many stops and starts but I know that I will get there (wherever ‘there’ is).

    Steph xxx

    • #5817
       Vanessa Law 
      Managing Ambassador

      SILVER

      Welcome Steph,

      What an exciting journey to start! The further I get along my path, the more I realize that ‘there’ is ‘here’ and each step is filled with it’s own beauty. There is really no destination 🙂

      I’m glad you’re here, wishing you love and light on your journey!

      Hugs,

      Vanessa

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  • #2008
     Michelle Lech 
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    Hi everyone!!  So blessed to find this community.  I so look forward to meeting all of you and seeking your advice and counsel as I continue my journey in accepting my true feminine self and becoming the woman I am meant to be.  My current photo reflects who I am on the inside.  I know that I won’t achieve that completely but with your love and guidance I can maximize the woman in me.  Thank you all for being here.

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  • #1820
     Ginnie Gidlund 
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    Hello Vanessa.
    Thanks for the welcome words. I am sorry that I cannot join the chat as the costs would be too much for me on a yearly basis. As I ma retired I have to look at my expense in another way than I did whil was still working. I hope that any answers to my messages here will be announced to me on my e-mailaddress. I will continue to listen and answer and offer help when I can.
    Again thanks for accepting me in spite of the many trouble there has been with my tries to be accepted. As ypu can se that I use the real first name and not the one that due to a typing error was on my first try to get accepted.
    All the best for you Vanessa
    Ginnie

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  • #1299
     Denise Annexstad 
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    Hi. I’m Christina. I live in Edmonton Alberta. I’m hoping to find other trans people that I can get to know. I’m still in the closet, itching to get out… But I have a lot to lose if/when I do.

    I understand about being in the closet when doing this stuff, I am double nickel myself and only let a small group of folks know I crossdress. and feel the same that I stand to lose a lot at coming out. well take care. Denise.

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    • #14055
       Jan Stewart 
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      Hello Christina…. I am transitioning, slowly, and will lose my career, and will start over at age 65…. I want to connect with others after hiding in the woods for most of my life.

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    • #23398
       tyler hyde 
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      what it is called is taking back your life and living for I know I am 61

  • #1014
     Debra Wright 
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    <p style=”text-align: left;”>hi my name is debra(david) i have been dressing up since 8 yrs old in my sisters clothes when i could. I’m currently out to most of my family  and a few friends I keep going back and forth as to transitioning  plus finances get in the way alot of times I’m an over the road truckdriver trying to run my own business while staying leased to a company</p>

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  • #1011
     Anonymous

    Hi!  I learned about Transgender Heaven after joining Crossdresser Heaven.  I’m not sure that I want to transition, but have considered it.  I’m hoping to make new friends and learn a lot here.

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  • #922
     ‘Eave 
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    Glad to be here and thank you for setting this site up. I just started my own changes a week and a half ago.

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  • #905
     Jaime Glitters 
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    Thanks for the welcome.

    I’m here from CDH and hope to find some friends here in the same boat as I am.

     

    Jaime XXOO

     

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  • #796
     Scarlett Slater 
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    Hi All,

    I feel honoured to be part of a new exciting place to feel safe and continue with my journey knowing that everybody has pretty much the same objective in life…… to be themselves!.

     

    I am based in the UK and am quite a way into the NHS pathway system to the point of now journeying through my real life experience. January 2019 is the next milestone as hopefully my referral to Edinburgh for GRS pre assessment quickly approaches.

    I am always free to answer any questions about my journey so far. I started self medication, went through a private bridging service, started on the NHS pathway and learned a lot of lessons on the way. I believe my story is going to be published regarding my experience of using GenderGP and Dr Webberley’s services in August and will keep everyone updated as to when it appears on the website.

     

    With love and best wishes.

     

    Scarlett xxx

    • #804
       Vanessa Law 
      Managing Ambassador

      SILVER

      Welcome dear! If you’re up for sharing your story in articles or a series of articles I know that members and guests would greatly appreciate it!

       

      *hugs*

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  • #795
     Mia West 
    Member

    Ok, so I never posted an introduction to myself… Hi all I am Mia. I feel silly doing it this late. I am really excited about TGH.

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  • #781
     Dame Veronica Graunwolf 
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    Hi Paige…..cool story….I liked it. But what does noosebomb mean….translate please? In the Nam war my nick name was “magnet-ass” for obvious reasons, along with Doc, Bac si and a-hole! How rude!

    Dame Veronica

    Dame Veronica Graunwolf

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    • #18115
       Anna O’Brien 
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      In the old time radio show Allen’s Alley starring Fred Allen, there was a character named Mrs. Nussbaum, meaning “nut tree.” Perhaps the character or the tree is what is referred to.

  • #776
     Christina W 
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    Hi. I’m Christina. I live in Edmonton Alberta. I’m hoping to find other trans people that I can get to know. I’m still in the closet, itching to get out… But I have a lot to lose if/when I do.

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    • #777
       Vanessa Law 
      Managing Ambassador

      SILVER

      Welcome Christina!

      I’m glad you’re here!

  • #644
     Paige Turner 
    Ambassador

    AMBASSADOR

    I have a theory about why I’m the way I am. When my Father came home from World War Two, I was conceived. I chose my parents, had my life planned, and was going to be a girl named Diane. Something went wrong, and I died before I could live. It’s just not fair! I was stillborn.
    When I went back to heaven, I was not a happy camper! I complained and insisted I get my chance to live.
    In the scheduling department I was told that the next child to be born in that family would be a girl, but that slot was already filled. That one became my older sister, Jean.
    The slot for the child after that was still open, but it would be a boy. At that point I didn’t care, I wanted to live, so I said I’d take it.
    And, here I am. A male with a female soul. Maybe I should have thought it through, but I didn’t.
    As a little boy, I would rather play with paper dolls than a baseball. Oh, I tried to do boy stuff, but, I was just never any good at it. As I got older, I was always more comfortable around girls than other boys, and that continues to today.
    Now, I’m fairly old, and have finally decided to live for me. Now I accept who and what I am, and don’t care what anyone else thinks. It’s just a shame it took me so long to reach this stage.
    You all know me as Paige Turner, but, I’m also quite comfortable as Paul F. Duvall Jr. too. I don’t consider them separate people, they are just blended parts of myself, now. I’ll answer to either name, as well as Noosebomb, which Wendy calls me, and Noose, which all my other friends call me. They’re all me, and I’m all them.

  • #480
     Donna Nadles Neu 
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    Thank you for this!!

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  • #476
     Cloe (CC) Webb 
    Managing Ambassador

    MANAGING AMBASSADOR

    Thank you for all your hard work and dedication, Vanessa!  I know my journey has been enriched by your efforts.  For that I am forever grateful to you and those who have found a home and a place to give back on CDH and now TGH.  I’m so happy to be a part of this team of wonderful people.

    Cloe

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  • #425
     Jasmine 
    Managing Ambassador

    MANAGING AMBASSADOR

    I  read your post Cyn, I can see myself running around asking everyone “Are you the Gate Keeper”

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  • #393
     Cynthia S 
    Ambassador

    AMBASSADOR

    If Jas is the Keymaster does that make Vanessa the Gatekeeper? LOL

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  • #389
     Cynthia S 
    Ambassador

    AMBASSADOR

    Thanks  Vanessa! Looking forward to continuing to explore my future path!

    Cyn

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  • #351
     Tessa Cee 
    Ambassador

    AMBASSADOR

    Hi Everybody!

    Glad to be here. I look forward to where this site takes us.

    Cheers! And Hugs!

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  • #318
     Jasmine 
    Managing Ambassador

    MANAGING AMBASSADOR

    Thank you Vanessa for providing our Community a place to gather and call home. I wish us the best and dream of a brighter future for all!

     

    *HUGS*

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