- June 24, 2018 at 10:06 pm #232
Vanessa LawManaging Ambassador
And welcome to Transgender Heaven!
We’re excited to open the doors on the site soon. We’re building a community to serve everyone who identifies as a transgender person, as well as their family, friends and loved ones.
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- January 7, 2019 at 12:07 pm #31449Becca PepperParticipantFREE
Hi everyone! I’m Becca, my husband is transitioning to a female full time. I came here in the hopes of some support. This is hard for both of us and our children but we are on the road to his happiness. I’ve known for 4 years, right after our second son was born. At first I decided that I’ll support him in every way but I’m not attracted to women so we can’t be together. After many years and lots of research.. I changed my mind and decided it was stupid to leave over a physical change when he’s still the same person. I have many fears.. for example, what if he wants to be with a man instead one day? ATM we are packing up and moving across the country where people don’t know him as a man.. which is huge and scary.
- January 8, 2019 at 2:36 am #31457
Hi Becca, thank you for seeing through to your husbands heart. You are one very special couple and blessed to have each other. We hope your spouse will join us here as well. For you there a number of other significant others (SO’s) such as yourself that are here. I’ll have one of our SO leaders reach out to you.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
- January 7, 2019 at 9:58 am #31444Tami CParticipantFREE
My name is Tami and I am from South Dakota. Glad to be here and looking forward to chatting/making friends. Hope everyone survived the holidays unscathed (wouldn’t that be nice)! Best wishes for the new year!
Let’s do virtual coffee soon!
- January 8, 2019 at 2:22 am #31456
Hi Tami we welcome you. Many of us had a good holiday and some needed the support of people like us here at TGH. Fortunately, this year our membership seemed to fair well. See you around.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
- January 7, 2019 at 9:22 am #31443Jon ChiParticipantFREE
- January 8, 2019 at 2:19 am #31455
Hello John, we’re pretty good at chat and have some great postings in the forums and groups and wonderful article written by members just like you. Best fo all we make good friends around here. Glad you already like it.
- December 25, 2018 at 11:42 pm #30639Annie GallagherParticipantFREE
I am Annie. I am here to meet new friends whether they be trans or ally. I am an aspiring political activist and I hope to make the world a better place for trans people. I figure I’d start by offering support to any who desire or need it, or who just want it. I’m not complaining either way.
- December 26, 2018 at 2:41 am #30659
Welcome Annie! Thank you for offering your help. Getting active in the Forums is probably the best way to get connected with our community followed by chat. I look forward to seeing you around and getting to know you.
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- December 18, 2018 at 4:14 pm #29689Jasmin SweetParticipantFREE
- January 7, 2019 at 10:15 am #31445Tami CParticipantFREE
Glad you’re here! I am fairly new here myself but everyone seems to be very kind and loving. I am also fairly new in transition so if you hear any awesome or helpful tips please do share. One thought that i try to keep in mind is that I don’t have to accomplish a complete transition in one day, I remind myself to just love whatever amount of femininity that I have today and maybe tomorrow I will find/express more.
Hope to hear more from you
- December 25, 2018 at 5:20 am #30547
Hi Jasmin! I’m in transition myself. You can reach out to me any time.
- November 13, 2018 at 1:33 pm #23238Autumn JacksonMember
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- November 13, 2018 at 6:24 pm #23273Denise AnnexstadParticipantFREE
Autumn, this is a good place to try and express yourself, if anything I think a lot of girls will be glad to give you good advice on what to do, so please keep your chin up and a smile on your face.
- November 5, 2018 at 9:21 am #21948Anonymous
Hello ladies and gentlemen,
I’m pleased to meet you all. I knew i wass in the wrong body at the age of 7 yrs old. I came out when I was in the US ARMY when I was 28. Now at 40, its been a very long struggle to hold on. Ive been disowned by everyone that I know of. Friends, family, so called friends. Hopefully I have found the right place to make friends. I doesnt feel very good being alone.
- November 6, 2018 at 1:38 am #22022
Hi Layla. It breaks my heart when I hear about another sister whose become isolated just for being themselves. You are among friends now and we’re here to support you in day today life as well as the big decisions. You just have to reach out.
- October 21, 2018 at 9:49 pm #19764RobbenWendyParticipantFREE
Hello I came out at 14 and again at 40. I am a transitioned transgender female. My records at the clinic say female. I have not had surgery, as an intersexual I doubt I need i. I believe in just being feminine naturally. There is no rule to having to be a part everyday. I have make up but wear it sometimes. I have dresses but wear skirts and women’s shorts and pants. I do wear panties and bras my bust size on hrt defined my transition. I am a happy camper but have to keep my eyes open about bullies living in the Bronx.
- November 4, 2018 at 5:43 am #21721
Sorry I missed this when you first joined. One step at a time we are changing the worlds perception of who we are. Bullying is as old as any other form of hate and has very little chance of going away as long as there are humans but getting it to where they’re more afraid to bully than not is an achievable goal.
- October 14, 2018 at 12:42 pm #18254John MarvinParticipantFREE
Just joined Transgender Heaven. First, you should know that I predate computers. Yes, I am that old. Which means I easily get lost dealing with computers now. Next, terminology is confusing. There are 100% males and 100% females, with hundreds of labels for all of us that are inbetween. My doctor calls me a crossdresser, because he is required to place a label. OK. I am male with a lifetime of thinking maybe a mistake was made and I should have been a girl.
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- September 27, 2018 at 6:22 am #16202jennifer pszzorakParticipantFREE
- September 27, 2018 at 7:55 pm #16306
Hi Jennifer, it’s nice to meet you. I’m happy you’ve achieved your goal in transition. Would love to have you share your story with us in an article or a a forum.
- September 15, 2018 at 7:46 am #14307Tasmin JanusParticipantFREE
Hi all, I am hoping to chat and make friends with like minded people. I am gender fluid and have female urges and needs part of the time, but I am always attracted to other trans people. Look me up and have a chat please! xxx Tasmin
- September 2, 2018 at 4:54 pm #11485Lydia CrowellParticipantFREE
I signed on a while back but sort of forgot about this. I have been dressing in femme attire since I was a little kid. My sister used to give me here older clothing. I am discrete about things but go out occasionally. Hope to have more to say. I will try to get a picture, but I am not entirely the most pretty of the T-girls in the world.
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- August 18, 2018 at 5:54 am #5423Steph Di FirenzeParticipantFREE
Like so many here I am just starting on my personal journey to discover who Steph is. I have begun this journey later in life (I’m 58 as I write this) than some, but still looking forward to making new friends and discovering more about myself in the process. My first experience being en femme (just a couple of years ago now) was such a revelation that I realised I need to be Steph. Hence my TG journey. There have been many stops and starts but I know that I will get there (wherever ‘there’ is).
- August 19, 2018 at 11:10 am #5817
What an exciting journey to start! The further I get along my path, the more I realize that ‘there’ is ‘here’ and each step is filled with it’s own beauty. There is really no destination 🙂
I’m glad you’re here, wishing you love and light on your journey!
- August 4, 2018 at 2:56 pm #2008Michelle LechParticipantSILVER
Hi everyone!! So blessed to find this community. I so look forward to meeting all of you and seeking your advice and counsel as I continue my journey in accepting my true feminine self and becoming the woman I am meant to be. My current photo reflects who I am on the inside. I know that I won’t achieve that completely but with your love and guidance I can maximize the woman in me. Thank you all for being here.
- August 4, 2018 at 1:24 pm #1820Ginnie GidlundParticipantFREE
Thanks for the welcome words. I am sorry that I cannot join the chat as the costs would be too much for me on a yearly basis. As I ma retired I have to look at my expense in another way than I did whil was still working. I hope that any answers to my messages here will be announced to me on my e-mailaddress. I will continue to listen and answer and offer help when I can.
Again thanks for accepting me in spite of the many trouble there has been with my tries to be accepted. As ypu can se that I use the real first name and not the one that due to a typing error was on my first try to get accepted.
All the best for you Vanessa
- August 4, 2018 at 5:25 am #1299Denise AnnexstadParticipantFREE
Hi. I’m Christina. I live in Edmonton Alberta. I’m hoping to find other trans people that I can get to know. I’m still in the closet, itching to get out… But I have a lot to lose if/when I do.
I understand about being in the closet when doing this stuff, I am double nickel myself and only let a small group of folks know I crossdress. and feel the same that I stand to lose a lot at coming out. well take care. Denise.
- August 3, 2018 at 10:28 pm #1014Debra WrightParticipantGOLD
<p style=”text-align: left;”>hi my name is debra(david) i have been dressing up since 8 yrs old in my sisters clothes when i could. I’m currently out to most of my family and a few friends I keep going back and forth as to transitioning plus finances get in the way alot of times I’m an over the road truckdriver trying to run my own business while staying leased to a company</p>
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- July 28, 2018 at 1:16 am #796Scarlett SlaterParticipantSILVER
I feel honoured to be part of a new exciting place to feel safe and continue with my journey knowing that everybody has pretty much the same objective in life…… to be themselves!.
I am based in the UK and am quite a way into the NHS pathway system to the point of now journeying through my real life experience. January 2019 is the next milestone as hopefully my referral to Edinburgh for GRS pre assessment quickly approaches.
I am always free to answer any questions about my journey so far. I started self medication, went through a private bridging service, started on the NHS pathway and learned a lot of lessons on the way. I believe my story is going to be published regarding my experience of using GenderGP and Dr Webberley’s services in August and will keep everyone updated as to when it appears on the website.
With love and best wishes.
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- July 27, 2018 at 6:33 pm #781Dame Veronica GraunwolfParticipant
Hi Paige…..cool story….I liked it. But what does noosebomb mean….translate please? In the Nam war my nick name was “magnet-ass” for obvious reasons, along with Doc, Bac si and a-hole! How rude!
Dame Veronica Graunwolf
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- July 27, 2018 at 3:11 pm #776Christina WParticipantFREE
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I’m glad you’re here!
- July 19, 2018 at 3:36 pm #644Paige TurnerAmbassadorAMBASSADOR
I have a theory about why I’m the way I am. When my Father came home from World War Two, I was conceived. I chose my parents, had my life planned, and was going to be a girl named Diane. Something went wrong, and I died before I could live. It’s just not fair! I was stillborn.
When I went back to heaven, I was not a happy camper! I complained and insisted I get my chance to live.
In the scheduling department I was told that the next child to be born in that family would be a girl, but that slot was already filled. That one became my older sister, Jean.
The slot for the child after that was still open, but it would be a boy. At that point I didn’t care, I wanted to live, so I said I’d take it.
And, here I am. A male with a female soul. Maybe I should have thought it through, but I didn’t.
As a little boy, I would rather play with paper dolls than a baseball. Oh, I tried to do boy stuff, but, I was just never any good at it. As I got older, I was always more comfortable around girls than other boys, and that continues to today.
Now, I’m fairly old, and have finally decided to live for me. Now I accept who and what I am, and don’t care what anyone else thinks. It’s just a shame it took me so long to reach this stage.
You all know me as Paige Turner, but, I’m also quite comfortable as Paul F. Duvall Jr. too. I don’t consider them separate people, they are just blended parts of myself, now. I’ll answer to either name, as well as Noosebomb, which Wendy calls me, and Noose, which all my other friends call me. They’re all me, and I’m all them.
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- July 2, 2018 at 6:57 pm #476
Thank you for all your hard work and dedication, Vanessa! I know my journey has been enriched by your efforts. For that I am forever grateful to you and those who have found a home and a place to give back on CDH and now TGH. I’m so happy to be a part of this team of wonderful people.
- July 1, 2018 at 6:48 pm #425JasmineManaging AmbassadorMANAGING AMBASSADOR
I read your post Cyn, I can see myself running around asking everyone “Are you the Gate Keeper”
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