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Hi,
And welcome to Transgender Heaven!
We’re excited to open the doors on the site soon. We’re building a community to serve everyone who identifies as a transgender person, as well as their family, friends and loved ones.
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Namaste!
I’m Loki (aka Luci) and I am very glad to find this community! I identify as a transwoman, though I’m very early in the transition process. My journey has been rough and chaotic at times, but it keeps getting better the more allies and trans friends that I meet.
A lot of people here have a deep and long-standing narrative (when they remember feeling dysphoria or having certainty of their identity) that I admire and thank them for sharing. I’ve often downplayed my own because it didn’t seem to be relevant or didn’t make sense at the time, so I only recently came to grips with my identity (though it runs deep, not necessarily long). The more we share, the deeper we all become, right?
Anyway, thank you all for accepting me into this community and I look forward to our collective journey together.Hi everyone: I’m Hannah. I’ve known all my life I was in the wrong body. I’m almost 65 now and struggling with major depression. Thank you
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Hello everybody! i apologize to anybody finding this annoying.
My partner has recently made a GoFundMe page in order to help pay for top surgery. There is more information on the page, but feel free to ask questions here, they will be answered.
this is the link, sorry it’s so long :/
Hi, My name is Gary and I am new to this forum. I have struggled with Gender Dysphoria for about 60 years. I have self medicated on and off for 40 years. I have felt alone for all that time. I was married and have two wonderful daughters who have been supportive of me. I am divorced. I have always wanted to get help but have never been able to afford it.
If anyone can guide me please help. I live with a very compassionate woman who is aware of my issues and stands by me. I feel like I am going crazy. I have always been afraid to say anything to my extended family, friends, and colleagues. I always feel alone in a crowded room. Please tell me what to do. Love Gary
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i also have been on a lonely journey for over sixty years. so lonely
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Gary, I am no expert and I am new to all this too. Like you I have always felt like I was born in he wrong body but could never say anything to anyone. What is working for me is to take it all one little step at a time. I started with wearing clear nail polish, then coloured. Wearing kilts as an “acceptable “ way to wear a skirt. Read what people on here have to say. Make some friends on here. Everyone is very supportive as everyone has had similar experiences to yours. Thank the woman with you often for her understanding and support. As I said, I am no expert but if you need to talk to someone who is in a similar place, you can talk to me.
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Hey Aylana, welcome home from a fellow South African now a kiwi living in New Zealand! If you are new on your journey, congrats on realising you are who you are. It is a real pleasure having you here with us. Just jump right in at chat and say hi. We have a wonderful gorgeous bunch of ladies and gents here and they will be all there to help you along your journey and support when needed! Love and hugs!
Catherine A Vos
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Hello I’m new as well. I’m from Canada Thunder Bay Ontario.
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Hi everyone.
I am new here.
I am from South Africa.
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Hi,
And welcome to Transgender Heaven!
We’re excited to open the doors on the site soon. We’re building a community to serve everyone who identifies as a transgender person, as well as their family, friends and loved ones.
<span style=”font-weight: 400;”>Just saying hi, I’ve been crossdressing for as long as I can remember trying on my moms “I Dream of Gennie” nighties when I was 12. I stated out on the Crossdresser Heaven site and loved it everyone is so friendly, but I read the article are you a crossdresser or transgender and there were so many things when she talk about transgender that I though thart’s me. I also have been watching a youtuber that put her whole transformation on podcasts , watching her experiences , made things that happen my whole life start to make sense .So here I am.I start my first Lazer hair removal treatment this wednesday and I’m so excited. Sure I will have so many questions and thanks for having me.</span>
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Kellis,
I am so sorry you had to go through that torment. My middle school classmates ruthlessly bullied me because they thought I was gay, and my father shouted at me once for wanting to hold his hand for the same reason. I got very close to running away from home because it got so bad. Your experience isn’t an outlier in my hometown, I’m sorry to say. We have a homeless shelter for youth here called Urban Peak, and most of its residents were kicked out of their parents’ house for being LGBT.
For the most part, though, everyone including me thought I was straight and cisgender. I tried for the longest time to be a man, and when I couldn’t find it in me, I just decided for the next decade I could find myself after I had checked off all of my academic goals.
It didn’t work. I felt like a shell of a person that could only feel negative emotions. I bullied others who weren’t as ambitious as me, because I thought that was the only purpose of living. I saw friends as resources for academic help, not as human beings, because I didn’t even know what it felt like. Even my one intimate relationship, I saw my partner for what she could achieve, not who she was.
I am not proud of who I was. I was a miserable, empty, pushy shell. Dressing in women’s clothes is the first time, apart from being with my grandmother, that I have not felt this way.
I don’t dare come out to everyone- yet. How did you get through the time before you came out? How did you avoid going back in the closet to yourself?
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Thanks!
This past week was the first time I have ever felt like a person.
How have others coped with being in the wrong body before they realized they were the other sex?
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Hey there and welcome. To answer your question, I have dealt with a lot of abuse, in my family and it was worse when I came out to my mom to initially being bisexual and Trans (I am pansexual today and this happened back in high school). I was beat and almost got kicked out of her home, even though I was like 15 or 16, still in high school. What helped me was making new friends in my college years, who accepted me as me. They also had a Pride group with meetings, we even when to Pride, the year before last year and made signs that I still have hanging in my room today. I also, we to see my therapist in college and she really helped me a lot. I was in a dark place, and I thought about giving up on life, but she really helped me cope. Eventually I started talking with a Psychologist about my life with trauma and abuse. Talking with her on the phone really helped me as well. She did refer me to a psychiatrist since my old psychiatrist doesn’t accept my insurance. The best advice I would give and talk to someone that you trust and who accepts and loves you no matter what. Because it in of the day, you matter in this world, and you may challenges and always still love yourself as much you can. I know it is hard to do, because I still struggle with it. I hope that this is good advice. Also, do the things that you love to do, because it will make your day, promise.
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Hi,
And welcome to Transgender Heaven!
We’re excited to open the doors on the site soon. We’re building a community to serve everyone who identifies as a transgender person, as well as their family, friends and loved ones.
Hi everyone, I just found this place and wanted to introduce myself and figure out where to go from here.
My legal name is Ethan, and I only began figuring out I might be trans a week before I posted this. It means the world to me that I’m not alone. I’m hoping I can find my way forward as a woman, as this is the first time I’ve ever felt free.
-Evelyn
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Hi everyone, I wanted to introduce myself so you all know who I am. I’m Alana. It’s great to be here. I just joined this community and I’m here because it feels really natural to be here. I just recently started to identify with being female and started to cross dress barely 5 weeks ago. A lot has happened recently that has caused me to question my identity which led me to come here. I wanted to connect with like-minded people, to support and be supported on this feminine journey. I hope that I can chat to some of you in the future and we can get to know each other better. I will be listening to you and reading a lot on this website and may ask you some questions to find out your experiences of womanhood.
Hi everyone, I’m Alana. It’s great to be here. I just joined and I’m here because it feels really natural to be here. I just recently started to identify with being female and started to cross dress barely 5 weeks ago. A lot has happened recently that has caused me to question my identity which led me to come here. I wanted to connect with like-minded people, to support and be supported on this feminine journey. I hope that I can chat to some of you in the future and we can get to know each other better. I will be listening to you and reading a lot on this website and may ask you some questions to find out your experiences of womanhood.
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This is my first social type of interaction with the exception of a certain female with whom I’d expressed myself with fully. I’m not quite sure where I am or who I am yet. My internal reality may have been created or manipulated by early childhood trauma..idk. All I k ow is tht I identify with being Female in many ways. At times it’s so natural and complete, yet at other times it is so foreign and I feel I have to throw it off.
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Hi Teri It’s so nice to meet you. You have an important personal story to tell and I’m very interested in it. I often analyse myself too and I believe trauma has stirred up my gender alignment at different stages of my life. I am in the afterlife of heterosexual and monogamous marriage which became very emotionally traumatic in its later stages which has focussed my mind on who I am and am rebuilding my identity. I am very happy to come out the other side as a woman who I have loved and admired my complete life and I aspire to be one. I still have many questions to answer which I will do with the help of my therapist. I will have many hurdles to overcome to win recognition and acceptance as authentic self. But I am glad I have taken the first step on my journey. I hope we can be friends and get to know each other better.
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hai all i am melissa totaly new and you could say i am still very shy about being me
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Hi
I am Alexandra Love, a non-binary being who is exploring all aspects of life. I love to get out and present as a woman whenever possible although with a not yet supportive wife and 14 year old twins all locked up for Covid, Alexandra has not had much time for herself lately.
I would love to meet some of the girls here and maybe even find some girls in the New York area to shop with!!
Lots of love,
Alexandra
Hello, everyone! I came here from Crossdresserheaven.com, where I continue. In adjusting to recent isolation from widowhood and COVID-19 practices, I discovered that a girl inside me enjoys getting out a little. She doesn’t demand that, she just enjoys private occurrences. My family don’t live with me but are important to me and would object to me coming out. So, I keep my inner girl in her closet. But it’s a big closet with a house, a kitchen, cars, clothes, cosmetics, an allowance, and a garden.
I hope to meet others in our community. Although I have yet to do this even before COVID-19 isolation policies, I would be willing as a cisgender man to date a trans woman if they and I would be friends in the absence of a date.
Since I have a comfortable established family life and am aging, I don’t expect ever to transition and do not know that I would want to, even if the opportunity arose. But in private my personality enjoys my hours when I move into my inner girl, like right now as I write this.
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Hi there,
I’ve been on the periphery of crossdresser heaven for a while. Recently I responded to a survey-post that asked how I’d feel if I woke up as a woman. My answer was pretty different from the other responses, because I didn’t talk about getting new clothes or wanting to change back. I said I’d wake up as the same me, just in a body that matches, and that I’d have tears of gratitude. I realized that sounded more like someone from TGheaven than CDheaven had written it. So I decided to come over here for a bit. I’ll probably stay fairly on the periphery here too, but I thank you in advance for making me welcome 🙂Thanks Ann, and welcome to Transgender Heaven. It’s a good test isn’t it?
For any Harry Potter fans, I thought of another one “The Mirror of Erised”. According to Albus Dumbledore, this mirror shows the “deepest, most desperate desire of our hearts.”
If you looked in the mirror what would you see?
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Hi there,
I’ve been on the periphery of crossdresser heaven for a while. Recently I responded to a survey-post that asked how I’d feel if I woke up as a woman. My answer was pretty different from the other responses, because I didn’t talk about getting new clothes or wanting to change back. I said I’d wake up as the same me, just in a body that matches, and that I’d have tears of gratitude. I realized that sounded more like someone from TGheaven than CDheaven had written it. So I decided to come over here for a bit. I’ll probably stay fairly on the periphery here too, but I thank you in advance for making me welcome 🙂4 users thanked author for this post.
Hello! I am new here, I came over from CDH, which has been such a great support network. I am gender fluid and 40 years old. I am a great big beautiful bearded lady and I hope to make some new friends here. I tend to swing more consistently to the female side of fluidity. I’ve hidden this in a male shell for long enough, that I wanna rock my lady side pretty hard! I am a loving and supportive soul, and I believe no one needs to take this journey alone. If you want to reach out, or need someone to talk to, send me a message! Off to work!
Lots of love,
Mikayla!
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Welcome Mikayla,
<p style=”text-align: left;”>I like your spirit girl, and hope to see you around the site.</p>
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Hey everyone-
I hope you are all wonderful and happy. I also hope this is the place in the forum where I introduce myself. My name is Therese but some of you may know me as Jessie (Jessica) from CDH. I have been exploring this box I had stowed away inside myself and found …well a lot. I am trying to celebrate who I am rather than hide who I am. On this journey to acceptance of and love of who I am I’ve noticed that the woman inside should be outside all the time. I mean it’s like your skin, your eyes, your hairline (unfortunately), our sexuality these things we can’t change about ourselves. This is the same (in my eyes anyway). I am a woman, a trans woman, a person and at fifty years old I want to celebrate who I am so I have begun exploring not just my gender identity but also transition. I’m going to a gender therapist, talking to an endocrinologist, talking to my wife, and talking to myself about this. Is it just me or does anyone else get huge amounts of anxiety over this? I’m taking it slow because it’s quite overwhelming. It’s nice to meet you all and I hope that I’ve put this in the right place and not put anyone off.
All my bestTherese
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Hi Therese,
I think your post was insightful, who of us doesnt have anxiety over our transitions. No matter what that transition looks like, we all have some anxiety which I believe we all feel about differerent aspects of it.
Sounds like you have the right approach though, seeing a therapist, talking to your endo, discussing it with your spouse. Its a big decision, but you seem to have started in the right direction.
We are all here to support you, and welcome you as a Sister! Talking sometimes helps immensely, chat with the ladies here has always given me an outlet to vent and relieve my anxiety. Best of luck in your journey and if ever you need an ear I am here.
Hugs Traci Lynn
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Thanks for the welcome Breanna. Yes, having the resources that are available today would have been a life saver for us, but like you said, the past is the past, and all we can do is pull up our big girl panties and move on. My next move comes in 13 days with the hearing for my name change. Can’t hardly wait, new chapters, new beginnings. Peace and love to all.
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My name is Diane Renee and I am a Senior MTF Gender Dysphoric. I was initially diagnosed in 2012 and have been slowly making my journey on this fabulous, new path. I have been living as my gender self for a little over 2 years now, and have taken the steps for my name and gender marker change. It’s amazing, after reading a lot of the forum posts how similar our experiences have been, and I think this site will make the rest of my journey a lot more interesting and fun
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Hi Diane,
A big Welcome to TGH and yes, it’s amazing how many of us there is out here. I am also a bit older and there was no internet, no trans awareness like there is today, and I too suffered from misdiagnosed gender dysphoria for years. But thats the past, it’s time for us to hold our heads up with pride and move forward!!
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Hi my name is Anne. I came to TGH only a short time after joining CDH in December 2018. I never formally introduced myself here at TGH so here I am. 🙂 I’m 62 yo but I’ve had these feelings of wishing I were a woman ever since I was 11 yo when I dressed in my mom’s pantyhose and bra. Growing up in Milwaukee in the 60’s and 70’s, there was no internet, no LGBTQ support groups, nothing to help one deal with these feelings. That and a very chaotic childhood home “directed” me to follow the “normal” societal path that we are supposed to follow. For so many years I suppressed these feelings as I was an empty shell living my drab male life. A couple years ago, I accepted these feelings of feeling/being female but I also live with the consequences of living what I call a life disguised as a male. I don’t know if I will transition but for the time being, I am going through laser and electrolysis treatments to completely remove this disgusting hair from my face and body. Whether I take this further to deal with the other disgusting male parts, only time will tell. Rejection by family and the thought of losing access to my three beautiful grandchildren is a very real concern if I choose to transition bodily. I am especially close to my 3 yo granddaughter and she to me. We have a very real and special bond already in her young life. In a way, I feel that she is me, reborn to be what I truly should have been all these years.
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Hello, I am new here. From Arizona <3
Nice to meet you!
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Hi Everybody!!!
My name is Breanna Leigh, formerly Brenda Leigh, and I have been a member of Cross dresser Heaven since November 2018, later joining Transgender Heaven. I just filed my paperwork with Circuit Court to legally change my name and decided several weeks ago to change My female first name from Brenda to Breanna, as the name Brenda brings back bad memories from the past. Since starting HRT four months ago I really feel I have opened a door to a new life and I do not want any past bad experiences polluting my future as a woman. Today I logged in to the site and I was immediately taken to the Choose your Plan page, and from there I was asked to introduce myself, so here I am. I figured it can’t hurt anything since I have not spent much time on the site, or the computer for that matter. My story is very much like everyone elses… I told my Ma and Pa a 5 years of age that I was really a girl, and they had no understanding. That was in 1966. Then again, when I was 14 or 15, they did not understand but this time they ridiculed and shamed me. I Cross dressed thru my twenties even living as a girl for awhile until I became a victim of a hate crime receiving one mean butt whooping simply because I was trans. At that point I decided I would become a tough guy and gain acceptance from my family whom I had had no contact with for several years. I pumped iron while stacking Deca and Testosterone to gain muscle mass, and fueled my anger with alcohol and heroin for 20 years. I eventually cleaned up my act and began getting my life together when a light came on in that little closet I locked Brenda Leigh in. She pounded on that closet door demanding I let her out. so I started reading more and more about Cross dressing, transgender and SRS, and could not believe how much info that is posted on the internet. When I grew up I was totally alone and did not understand why I thought the way I did. There was no internet, no support groups, no LGBTQ to help change laws to create equal rights. If you x-dressed or you were trans, you probably lived alone in the closet, not caring to venture out unless you were a perfect femm. As I searched the internet for answers I found Cross dresser Heaven, just last November 2018, and got some good advice from some great people. In no time at all I had a new female wardrobe complete with everything a woman needs, shoes, purses, coats, blouses, jeans, dresses, jewelry, everything. Next was make up classes, voice feminization lessons, I entered therapy with a great gender therapist and soon was living 24/7 as a woman. The next thing was HRT and interviewing for reassignment surgery which unfortunately, I must pay cash for. I am now saving $$ towards my surgery and hope to have enough saved within the next two years. And since starting HRT I have been a much calmer, happier more content person who no longer experiences the anger I felt as a man. It hasn’t been all roses, I own a small business and since coming out I have lost business, my 84 yr old Mother has dis-owned me refusing to even talk to me, and my one and only sister hates transsexuals and what I’m doing but still communicates by constantly telling me what a bad mistake I made. You know what I say!?? Screw em all!!! I have every right in this world to be me and I will loose NO more time in my life trying to satisfy someone else’s expectations of me!!! Today I am very happy and confident as the person who I truly am, Breanna.!!
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Wow, Breanna, that’s is quite an ordeal that you have lived through – it brought tears to my eyes just to read it. So sorry about the complete lack of support from family, who should know better and would be better if they truly cared about you. I so admire your strength and determination to overcome all of that. You have rescued your own life not thanks to but in spite of your “loved ones”. I’m happy that you listened to the voice from that “little closet” and found the peace and balance in life that you so deserve. The world is a better place now that Breanna is in it! Good luck and best wishes on your journey, now that you are finally on the right path.
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You truly are! Welcome home.
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Hi everyone my name is Annie just starting my journey kind of late in life I”m 63 years old always have been what you call maybe a sissy guy not like regular guys always liked to talk with women instead even found out secrets about some of my friends at times..When younger use to dress up with my sisters in there clothes loved it but always was side tracked by having to do guy stuff with my dad didn’t really want to really wanted to stay inside and draw and play with my sisters instead always felt like something was missing with me didn’t quite feel like a man I guess you would say started crossdressing and fell in love with it last week was when I put on my first bra gosh that was like heaven haven’t started hrt yet but soon and looking forward to it haven’t come out to the wife yet but counselor and me are working on it she’s not gonna like it don’t think but this is for keeping me sane and not her guess if things don’t work out was met to be so still a long journey and probably a bumpy one that seems like I got to do this all alone cause no one else knows and probably won’t support it have adult kids so don’t know what there gonna say but like I said my choice and can’t really be happy any other way ….
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Hi Annie and welcome to the club hon. I am also new and older 57, but keep that quiet please. Oh anyone reading my reply skip thar part. I started HRT 10 days ago, best choice of my life. I am already happier and calmer, but thats my chouce and only you can decide if or when you are ready. Also married and had the same concerns as you about coming out to my wife, however i am pretty blunt sometimes. I told her i had an appointment, and she asked for what? I though about it for a moment and said to talk to a clinic and get bloodwork done for hrt. We are still together, for the time being at least and possibly the future as well. There is hope Annie, and believe me the ladies here at TGH are exceptionally helpful and supporting. Good luck on your journey love!
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Waaah…(Im crying)..I just wrote the most heartfelt post chronicling my entire life story …then, as i do, I hit the wrong button and lost it to the digital ether. Well shite..Im too lazy to write another. Sooo..Im Josie 59..I start HRT soon ..my wife is on board and I am so happy to be here among you girls..kisses huggs…smoochies
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Welcome to TGH Josie!
We’re glad you’ve joined us and hope you find the site a place to call yours. Jump right in and enjoy our forums, groups and articles or share a photo or a bunch. Also we’re excited for our revamped chat system for love discussions or just some fun. Please know we do offer support for SO’s as well. Just ask and I can connect you with the lead ambassador.
Lord knows how many hours of my time fell victim to the “let me check something” click. Most of the time I use Ctrl-A, Ctrl-C so I have it in my clipboard or right click and us open in new tab.
Managing Ambassador Cloe
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Hi,
I am jaiymelynne. I came from the crossdresser heaven site too. I have realized that I am a journey for life. to live to my truth as the woman I am inside; she must be out and free. It has been a lifetime of discovery. I know now that everyday I ignore her, is a day lost. So I joined here with the idea of meeting like minded people. With some experience to guide and encourage. To come to grips with the reality of my life as it should be. Coming to the realization that it’s ok. That it is normal, at least for us. And that is what I want. Normal. Not feeling lost or having something missing. Being myself and loving it.
Thanks for reading my intro, hope to chat soon.
JaiymeLynne
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I feel the same way. Every time I see my clothes/wigs in the closet I feel like part of me is locked away in the closet. It’s like what was once my sanctuary is now my dungeon. Welcome!
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Welcome to TGH Jaiymelynne! We’re glad you found your way over here and that you find TGH a great compliment to your experience at CDH.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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Hello one and all
Like many here, Ive joined here today and know some of the names already from CD Haven ..
Ive been out for ever and live a mixed bag of fem/non fem time with my fabulous fully supportive partner who has put up with me for decades !
I have been full time in the past and for various reasons put my transition on hold and have been there ever since. Its not been easy but have no regrets as I get to have a lot of quality fem time and still have a little boy time too.. however I am still ‘me’ no matter what I’m wearing,
I like to think that I have reasonably well balanced life … but with a strong lean to the pink side!
Lovely to be here and hope to chat soon.
hugs Dawn
xx
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I am truly Grateful I some how arrived in a safe place where I can just relax not be rushed and take my time. Right now I feel like I am on vacation. I want it to be permanent.
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hello and welcome to this wonderful site, where we can meet others and chat and knowing we are not alone in this x dressing world. x dressing has been around for years and no one paid attention, bat man wore tights, glinger form mash wore a dress, woman wear pants and shirt. i found this place and i feel relaxed and happy
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Welcome to TGH Dawn!
It always amazes me to meet someone who finds that balance. It is wonderful to have you with us and hope you can share with us some of your story and how you came to where you are. I tried to find a balance with my ex, but it wasn’t meant to be for us. We did part amicably so you might say we found a different kind of balance that let me continue my transition.Hugs, Cloe
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Hi I’ve chosen the name Kane and identify as a male. I haven’t come out to my family, when I’ve brought similar subjects up when I was younger they didn’t really seem like they’s approve so I’ve only told a couple of close friends. I’ve had some health problems recently so I haven’t been able to start hormones or anything, but I’m hoping I will be able to when I get better. I’ve pretty much knew all of my life that I wasn’t female, and always felt male but kept brushing it aside since my family pretty much made me feel like I was weird or a freak for feeling how I do. I want to do a full transition, mainly because I really want the surgery….I feel very uncomfortable with how I currently look, and honestly think I’m hideous which is why it isn’t my profile picture. I was wondering if anyone might be able to tell me how transitioning is or was for them since I haven’t started the process other than therapy right now? If this isn’t the place to ask that question, would someone be able to link me the forum where I might be able to find that out? I’ve done research on what the basic process is as well as potentials of what can go wrong in both taking hormones as well as the surgeries, but there’s obviously a difference in researching and people so I thought I’d ask if that’s alright. Umm…since this is supposed to be an intro to me if anyone has any questions for me I’m pretty much an open book so feel free to ask. Thanks for taking the time to read this ^.^
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Welcome to TGH Kane! You can read up or even ask questions about physical transition in this one https://transgenderheaven.com/forums/forum/the-physical-transition/. What I can tell you from the MTF perspective is that starting HRT was the beginning of a beautiful story and most peaceful time of my life despite everything going on around me.
We also have a growing FTM membership that we would like to connect you with. Ou Managing Ambassador, Jasmine, is working with this group and I will pass your name on to her. She’s out on leave so it may be a week or so, but you should hear from her soon enough.
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I never gave my desire to crossdress much thought. That was until last year when my SO of 30 years came accross a picture of me in womans clothing. She asked me about my crossdressing. I could not answer her questions so I have embarked on a journy of exploration of my gender identity. I have allowed the feminity inside of me to emerge and is now starting to blossum.
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Greetings,
My chosen name is Iason, and I identify as male.
I am 35 and have lived my whole life knowing I was male, but it was not until the last several years I was able to safely come out to close friends and select members of my family. Even coming out I did not have the ability to do so publically, and until the last month was afraid to because of my kids.
Where I was living till last August, I likely would have lost custody if I came out and tried to start the process. My family and I moved due to a stalker, and where we moved, I found out, I am not only accepted but safe. My kids would not be in harm’s way if I began the process here… and this is where life has decided to, yet again, smash me in the face with hope and keep it out of reach. We are facing homelessness in about 2 weeks. I am also having major health issues as well which makes it even harder. I feel like I am stuck in a dark black room, screaming for help and no one is listening.
Now I am trapped in a situation I am not sure how to fix for my kid’s sake, and trapped in a body that both is not mine and is falling apart at the same time. I am turning to try to find help at every avenue… I have told my story about 20 times today alone… and while voices answer me, no one has a solution.
Sorry for ranting, but I feel safe in trans communities pouring my heart out where I don’t anywhere else.
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Lason, Please rant away, that is why we are here. Glad that you feel safe here, I don’t have any answers for you, but will pray for you and your family to be safe and that you may live in peace in the future during your indevours. I have always believed that one should live their dreams without being harmed or troubles to deal with. But unfortunaly we live in a society where trouble is still around us. Hopefully someone here will have some answers for you. Take care my dear. Denise.
Hi lason,
Welcome to TGH! Sorry to hear you’re in hard times. Homelessness, and with children too, is a horrible spot! I can relate. My partner Joan has fibro and often misses work. This week we’re late on rent, down to $9 until Friday. How about a BIG hug, bro? If you wanna chat I’m around. Hang tough and good luck!
Hiya to one and all.
My name is either Niall or Gerri, depending on if I feel male or female, and how I am dressed.
I was born as a male in 1965, and a few years later as a female, as had two elder sisters and often I wore their “hand-me-downs” in and out of the house, with my parent’s say so, as money was tight back then.
I did NOT wear their dresses / skirts until my teenage years when I began to get jealous of their outfits.
More on this later, as just joined here and cannot compress 54 years into a few sentences.
Best Wishes ,
Niall / Gerri, xxx
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Niall/Gerri, welcome to TGH! We share the same birth year and started knowing about our differences very young. My sisters never knew about my dressing and I rarely touched there things as it was a crowded house. But once I did swipe a pair of my oldest sisters hand me down jeans and wore them to school a number of times before being called out by a friend. We look forward to hearing your story and being able to share what makes you be you.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
Hi all, I’m a proud parent of an adult son who just informed me he is tg. He is new to this life and its a new experience for us both. I want to support him and be there for him 100%. I know he is scared and has only told 4 people and he trusted me to be one of the four. I was there for his debut a few days ago, me and one other. He needs help with make-up but did an awesome job at applying for his first time. I’m trying to move to Seattle but it’s so expensive not sure how I can do it. I am a little scared because of the rise in hate crimes towards tg. I’m so proud of my son for finally coming out to me and taking his first step towards the life he wants. Well, I think that sums it up!
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Hi Denise! I am so proud of you for being a proud and supportive transgender parent. As someone from a different time who has kept her own true gender identity “under wraps” for over 60 years — and paid the price with two divorces and a lifetime of denial and concealment — I am a firm believer in transitioning early and the earlier the better. Yes, it isn’t easy, but neither is trying so hard to “play by the rules” and ultimately failing. Every road in life has its bumps and we need to be at peace with ourselves in order to succeed. There is no support greater or more valuable than that of a mother. I celebrate you and your daughter!
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Denise,
It is wonderful that you are supporting your son. My 80+ yo parents support me and even though I’m in my 50’s and on my own and it has meant the world to know I have a safe harbor even just over the phone. We do have a Significant Other (SO) program that I’m going to refer you to. This is meant as a support for you as someone who has their own needs in helping a transgender person.
Ambassador Cloe
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not entirely sure how to start this so here goes nothing. I’m a 21 year old ts woman who’s too afraid to admit that I am obe to anyone including my closest family and friends. i dont have the courage to dress as a woman even in my most private of moments. I dont even know where to turn for support/counselling in my area and so I’ve ended up here where I’m hoping to get some sort of help/advice and maybe some reassurance cos the whole thing kinda scares me.
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Hi everyone,
I’m here to support my boyfriend. He came out to me a couple weeks ago and I just want him to be happy. I’ve been handling it all well, helping him dress up, helping with his makeup and hair… Doing whatever I can to show support and acceptance but today I lost it in the shower. He caught me crying and immediately washed the makeup from his face which made me feel terrible. We talked about how I’m happy for him and support him but I also need support through this.
I’m hoping to meet some friends who are supporting their partner through this also. Being able to talk to someone who can relate would really help. I don’t want my boyfriend to feel like he’s doing something wrong any time I get sad relating to this.
Hopefully this post finds its way to anyone on the supporting end of transgender.
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Hi Ashley. You are not alone. We do have a significant other program and it’s designed to be a safe space for you in that is only for SO’s for the very reason that you do need your own support. If you don’t mind would you please send me a private message and I can connect you with the leader of the group.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
My ex always tried to tell me that she is supportive but she never was, secretly she thought I was gay and I’m not. As for you crying in the shower and supporting your boyfriend, well, I’m going to out on a limb and say that yes you are being supportive, but might still having a hard time with this. Just relax and take things one day at a time, and don’t over do it. Yes we are out here for each other, and hopefully will be able to help you through this. Denise.
Hi all,
I am new here. Wanted to hang out with others who are similar to me.
Looking forward to meeting new people.
Celeste
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Hi everyone!
My name is Jennifer. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria in 2017 after many visits to a wonderful gender therapist. I have known since I was 5 years old that I always should have been female. I struggled with depression, anxiety, and just absolute discomfort with myself for 30 years before I started finding out that there are others out there that have the same feelings and discomfort that i do! However, this is where my story probably turns different for most. I am happily married. I love my wife more than anything. And I have three beautiful children, ages 6, 4, and 2. I began transitioning with HRT at the beginning of 2018 and found such happiness in watching my body change! But about in the middle of 2018, my oldest son came to me and said “daddy, I dont want you to be a girl”. And started crying. I tried to explain to him that I have always been a girl and am trying to be who I always have been. He started crying harder and begged me to stop. So I did. I love my kids more than myself. So I’m willing to stay in this mans body if it means my kids feel more comfortable. I am finding my depression creeping back in. I do my best to try to control it. I know my kids are happy and that makes me happy. I try to put my selfishness aside, but it is so hard. I have dreams about just waking up as a woman. When I actually do wake up and nothing has changed I cry. I’m hoping to find friends here, ways to cope, and a greater understanding of human gender identity. Thank you all for reading this. Much love!!
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Welcome to TGH Jennifer. The sacrifices a parent makes for their family are amazing. But the act of taking care of yourself is not a selfish act. Depression is a serious issue and not one that is easily controlled.. It effects everyone around you including those your’e trying to protect. You do not mention seeking help for it. A good counselor helps people deal with this very thing. If you are not then I think you might want to consider it. We’re here for each other on TGH, but we are not trained professionals. Please keep that in mind as you seek out support.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
Hi all, My name is Meran, pronounced just like Karen.
I am a nearly retired, but youthful looking Pre-op Transgender woman. I have been on HRT for nearly three years. A GG I just met suggested this site to me although I’ve been a member on a sister site for a while. This site seems more to my actual living style.
I’m sure I can offer advice and experiences in many facets. I stepped out in ’96 after a brutal divorce. I decided from that point on I was going to live as a woman, although I have dealt with many roadblocks since. My tastes in fashion have changed too. I love mostly everything feminine in the wardrobe but I’m more of a casual dresser everyday.
I am in a ‘sort-of’ relationship with a GG who I’ve known for over 5 months. I say it’s still on the verge of collapsing as I’m discovering several inconsistencies and excuses leading to deception. I’ve had short-lived relationships with men and even other transgender woman. I almost gave up looking when this particular GG found me and thought I’d be right for her. I may be, but is she right for me? So many questions!
Well, anyway, I’m here. Hope to meet some of you in one way or another.
Hi, my name is Meghan and I’m so happy I found this site! I’m just beginning my journey like so many others and am excited to connect with others experiencing the same things. I look forward to meeting and talking with you awesome people!
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Hi,
And welcome to Transgender Heaven!
We’re excited to open the doors on the site soon. We’re building a community to serve everyone who identifies as a transgender person, as well as their family, friends and loved ones.
So happy I found this site I am in the beginning stages on my journey of self discovery. Would appreciate any and all advice.
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Thank you!!! I guess you could say the “prodigal woman” has returned. I have spent most of the past year in hospitals and rehab.., losing half of one foot. I can still get around, but not wearing regular shoes just yet. When I wanted to log in, I could remember my password, but not my user name so I had to make a minor alteration. It feels so good to be back!!!
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Welcome back Cristie!
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Welcome to TGH, Natalia. It wasn’t that long ago that I was making those same first steps. Please remember everyones journey is unique and there is no master plan. Part of the beauty of it all is that you get to decide what is best for you and what things you don’t even need to worry about. Most of all you really should have a good professional counselor to help you find your own answers. We’re here to give you perspectives on how we handled certain situations.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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Hi Ladies!
I’m brand new to this site, but have been on CDH prior. I’m realizing that I’m more Transgender than a Crossdresser, but fear has me still in limbo. It would be nice and interesting to see what I would do if I was able to go away for awhile. I don’t know if I’ve created a dual personality based on huge amounts of stress in the past. Maybe my fascination on all the things feminine on a woman has grown for me to want to look, smell, and feel like a beautiful woman. In Highschool, I grew my hair out. The longer it got and the attention to make sure it always looked its best, got me different responses by others who thought I was a girl. Funny thing was, I wasn’t wearing any makeup or dressed in femme clothes. It was my features; long wavy hair, long lashes, small nose, small frame, and high cheek bones. I can’t remember how far back I’ve wanted to dress up on Halloween, but ironically still something I haven’t done yet. This is me in a nutshell; thanks for taking the time to read this. Hugs and kisses to all.
xoxoxo
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Hi Michelle, welcome to TGH. We’re to help support you in your journey. Fear is normal for us and a good counselor can help you deal with those when they become a problem. We want to help you explore, but please if you need an ambassador use the intercom function to get our attention.
Hugs, Cloe
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Hi girls 💖
I’m Sandra, 58 from Las Vegas. I’m so excited to be here and hope to get to know you all soon.
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Christelle,
Welcome to TGH. I did not have the supportive wife that you enjoy so please cherish that. I live authentically full-time now and have had the changes you mention from a year of HRT. There are other changes as well and you really do need to understand them before taking such a momentous step. Your wife should be aware too as it dies affect her. If you do get serious about taking that step you should seek out counseling. I don’t know the laws of your country so you should understand them as well.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
nice!
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Hiya, it’s nice to be here.
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Hello and welcome to TGH , Jeralyn! We’re glad you joined us and hope that you find your time spent here is rewarding and you make great new friends.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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Greetings. I’m Tommie Jayne and am 64, originally from Chicago, now living in Tucson, one of the most trans friendly cities in the world. My genitals were operated on when I was a toddler, leaving me with functional male junk and raging GD that I lived with in silence until well into my 40’s, hiding behind a beard and scruffy clothing. My parents simply would hear nothing of it and not wanting to get hit, I shut up and played along as best I could, putting my trust in spirit to heal me when they came to heal the world.
I’ve been living authentically for almost 5 years and on HRT for almost 4. My life has never been better. I’m more at peace with myself and people react to me better than ever and all my arts get stronger every day. I pray that all my transgender siblings everywhere will wake up tomorrow in places as accepting and safe as Tucson.
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Tommie,
I’m so happy you’ve found a place in your life where you can be at peace both location and with yourself. Your experience is invaluable and we hope you can find a place to share and receive support here on TGH.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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Hello, i am Christelle. I am French, I am 55, i ve been crossdressing since i was a teen. I have been married 25 years i have a 20 year old daughter. My wife knew from the beginning and was very supportive throughout our marriage. As of now, i was only wearing lingerie at home or at work under my men s clothes. I Always kept my body smooth and on Week ends, when our daughter was away, i wore my wigs, my shoes, did my nails, Apply make up and felt just great. Now i am divorced and would like to go further. I am not yet ready and confident enough to go out in public as a woman but this is my goal. I am seriously thinking of taking female hormonnes in order to grow a small breast and have my belly fat move to my hips or butt. If anyone went through this, i d love to hear about your story.
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Christelle,
Welcome to TGH. I did not have the supportive wife that you enjoy so please cherish that. I live authentically full-time now and have had the changes you mention from a year of HRT. There are other changes as well and you really do need to understand them before taking such a momentous step. Your wife should be aware too as it dies affect her. If you do get serious about taking that step you should seek out counseling. I don’t know the laws of your country so you should understand them as well.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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Hi. I am xander. I am 39 and just started to talk to my dr about trsnstioning. I am ftm. Only my mom and older brother know. The rest of my family ate rednecks and i dont think they will take it well.
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Hi, my name is Erikka. I am from a very backward part of northern California where I have not been able to connect with any support groups here. Not sure if there are any in this area. Eleven months on HRT. Gaining confidence with who I am and beginning to smile again.
I have so many questions and observations about transitioning and until now only being able to discuss stuff with my psychiatrist and my therapist who are great but not really up-to-date about trans.
hello every one my name is Lucinda, i also have joined cross dressing heaven. i started x dressing when i had to wear a pair of tights in a school play i was hooked. later in years my x dressing went away then came back again but stronger. i have now accumulated my own collection of dresses and panties,bras, nylons, make up, perfume, ear rings, necklace, some heels. my wife found out later in life and lets me dress up but only when our last adult child is still living home, when he is out working wife lets me know i can do what i like to do and dress up. i am already 1/2 dressed up and all i had to do is make up and perfume and ear rings and necklace and heels. wife seen my collection and told me i have more then she does. wife seen me dressing up a few times and talked to me about something and then went to living room, she will not help with make up or let me sit in same room as her and talk like 2 woman. well that’s a short introduction about me and how i got started . i do under dress allot during winter, keeps me warm when i go out side. but nothing like wearing female clothing and being free and happy
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Welcome to TGH, Lucinda! Thank you for sharing a glimpse of your story with us. To find an accepting wife is a blessing. Be gentle with her.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
hi i am new here myself i just want a transgender family who understands me
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hey thanks for the Warm Welcome its great i don’t have many Friends that is why i am here looking for Friends and Family that i can Relate to
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thanks for that i do need to chat about how i feel and about why i am here its important to me to feel like i am not alone and do have Friends and Family here i am very new here and i need to get to a Chatroom
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Hi everyone!
I’m Kris. Mid 40’s transwoman from Texas but just recently relocated to the Knoxville area. I’m considered tall at 6′ but it helps make me even that much more unique. I love laughter and looking for the humor in things. I enjoy playing music, especially with others.
Thanks for the warm welcomes!
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Welcome to TGH, Kris! I hope Knoxville is treating you well. Being unique is one of the best parts of being trans. I’m at the point where I gladly tell people I am.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
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<p style=”text-align: center;”>We share similar thinking regarding others knowing we are trans. I actually prefer everyone know. I’d rather remove the elephant from the room and tackle and whispers or confusion regarding who I am. I live with zero shame or guilt and enjoy leaving a good impression rather the misinformed ones most have. Countless times people have approached me explaining I (and other trans women) are nothing like they thought or had been told we were. I tell everyone…”I live in a glass house. Ask whatever is important to you. ” That tends to put everyone on the same level and allows for dialogue to aid in dispelling the many incorrect myths that surround the trans community.</p>
And unlike a lot of transwomen, I don’t place high importance on “passing”. I sincerely don’t care who knows I was born Male. For years I lived in a fantasy land that all transwomen had to “pass”, no exception. Now however, I have come to despise the word “past based on how many believe like I used to. The term itself is harmless but extremely sad when you realize how many get all caught up believing it’s a must. I have friends that are having self acceptance issues regarding this one area. It truly breaks my heart to see my peers beat themselves up about it.I don’t care if I pass. I don’t care if I don’t. I do however, care about my genuine happiness and use that as fuel to deal with those who notice me and struggle with accepting it.
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Hi everyone! I’m Becca, my husband is transitioning to a female full time. I came here in the hopes of some support. This is hard for both of us and our children but we are on the road to his happiness. I’ve known for 4 years, right after our second son was born. At first I decided that I’ll support him in every way but I’m not attracted to women so we can’t be together. After many years and lots of research.. I changed my mind and decided it was stupid to leave over a physical change when he’s still the same person. I have many fears.. for example, what if he wants to be with a man instead one day? ATM we are packing up and moving across the country where people don’t know him as a man.. which is huge and scary.
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Becca,
Blessings and gratitude at your courage and careful consideration. Not everyone can find the strength and love to look past the transmutation of their spouse’s exterior.
I know, because my wife of 20 years couldn’t. Your relationship with your spouse must have been strong enough, too. That was not my case and I know how much pain and stress it caused my (now) ex-wife to even think of me shapeshifting, having lived a secret she didn’t know.
I guess what I’m saying is that I admire you for your ability to work through the struggle and taking the time to deeply reflect where your heart was really at. Your relationship was tested and you two came out on top. Thank you for your commitment!
Even if you had been honest and couldn’t go any further than being a supporting friend, I hope your spouse has let you know how much even that would have helped. It is because of people like you that the world becomes a safer, more human place.Hi Becca, thank you for seeing through to your husbands heart. You are one very special couple and blessed to have each other. We hope your spouse will join us here as well. For you there a number of other significant others (SO’s) such as yourself that are here. I’ll have one of our SO leaders reach out to you.
Hugs, Ambassador Cloe
Hi!
My name is Tami and I am from South Dakota. Glad to be here and looking forward to chatting/making friends. Hope everyone survived the holidays unscathed (wouldn’t that be nice)! Best wishes for the new year!
Let’s do virtual coffee soon!
Love Tami
Hi Tami we welcome you. Many of us had a good holiday and some needed the support of people like us here at TGH. Fortunately, this year our membership seemed to fair well. See you around.
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Hi
I am Annie. I am here to meet new friends whether they be trans or ally. I am an aspiring political activist and I hope to make the world a better place for trans people. I figure I’d start by offering support to any who desire or need it, or who just want it. I’m not complaining either way.
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Welcome Annie! Thank you for offering your help. Getting active in the Forums is probably the best way to get connected with our community followed by chat. I look forward to seeing you around and getting to know you.
Ambassador Cloe
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Hi Jasmine!
Glad you’re here! I am fairly new here myself but everyone seems to be very kind and loving. I am also fairly new in transition so if you hear any awesome or helpful tips please do share. One thought that i try to keep in mind is that I don’t have to accomplish a complete transition in one day, I remind myself to just love whatever amount of femininity that I have today and maybe tomorrow I will find/express more.
Hope to hear more from you
Tami
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Hi Tami,
l have recently stared on my journey and wish to ask a number of questions.
Would you help me find the correct answers
kelly
I am autumn and I’m 41 and I’m in Pueblo Colorado and I’m not sure what to say about the things that i am going through but i have been wanting to be a girl full time since i was 12
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Hello ladies and gentlemen,
I’m pleased to meet you all. I knew i wass in the wrong body at the age of 7 yrs old. I came out when I was in the US ARMY when I was 28. Now at 40, its been a very long struggle to hold on. Ive been disowned by everyone that I know of. Friends, family, so called friends. Hopefully I have found the right place to make friends. I doesnt feel very good being alone.
-Layla Jynsen
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Layla,
I believe I can relate with you on some levels. I came from a multigenerational military family, all but Marines, I seem to recall. I, myself, even enlisted in the Navy. Ironically, I was probably inches away from realizing what transgender was without any outside information (my education until recently has been the tripe circulated in conservative groups from the 1980’s) near the time I went to the recruiter. Lol.
Being now in my early 40’s, I, too, look back at the story of my secret self. My wife wasn’t able to adapt nor willing to consider it and I live in Nebraska, so no real friends or allies here. But, the world will surprise you. There are friends to be had here, no doubt. Welcome!
Hello I came out at 14 and again at 40. I am a transitioned transgender female. My records at the clinic say female. I have not had surgery, as an intersexual I doubt I need i. I believe in just being feminine naturally. There is no rule to having to be a part everyday. I have make up but wear it sometimes. I have dresses but wear skirts and women’s shorts and pants. I do wear panties and bras my bust size on hrt defined my transition. I am a happy camper but have to keep my eyes open about bullies living in the Bronx.
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Robben,
Sorry I missed this when you first joined. One step at a time we are changing the worlds perception of who we are. Bullying is as old as any other form of hate and has very little chance of going away as long as there are humans but getting it to where they’re more afraid to bully than not is an achievable goal.Hugs, Cloe
Just joined Transgender Heaven. First, you should know that I predate computers. Yes, I am that old. Which means I easily get lost dealing with computers now. Next, terminology is confusing. There are 100% males and 100% females, with hundreds of labels for all of us that are inbetween. My doctor calls me a crossdresser, because he is required to place a label. OK. I am male with a lifetime of thinking maybe a mistake was made and I should have been a girl.
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Hi John. Labels are overrated anyway. I’m happy just being called transgender and consider all the flavors to be one big family to me.
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Hi my name is Jennifer Marie and Im a transitioned TG and glad to find this site and makew new friends
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Hi all, I am hoping to chat and make friends with like minded people. I am gender fluid and have female urges and needs part of the time, but I am always attracted to other trans people. Look me up and have a chat please! xxx Tasmin
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Hi,
I signed on a while back but sort of forgot about this. I have been dressing in femme attire since I was a little kid. My sister used to give me here older clothing. I am discrete about things but go out occasionally. Hope to have more to say. I will try to get a picture, but I am not entirely the most pretty of the T-girls in the world.
Lydia
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Lydia,
We don’t pass judgement here. The picture is entirely up to you, but it does help to put a face to a name. People are just really in tune to visuals.
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hello ladies and thank you for this sight
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Hi everyone,
Like so many here I am just starting on my personal journey to discover who Steph is. I have begun this journey later in life (I’m 58 as I write this) than some, but still looking forward to making new friends and discovering more about myself in the process. My first experience being en femme (just a couple of years ago now) was such a revelation that I realised I need to be Steph. Hence my TG journey. There have been many stops and starts but I know that I will get there (wherever ‘there’ is).
Steph xxx
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Welcome Steph,
What an exciting journey to start! The further I get along my path, the more I realize that ‘there’ is ‘here’ and each step is filled with it’s own beauty. There is really no destination 🙂
I’m glad you’re here, wishing you love and light on your journey!
Hugs,
Vanessa
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Hi everyone!! So blessed to find this community. I so look forward to meeting all of you and seeking your advice and counsel as I continue my journey in accepting my true feminine self and becoming the woman I am meant to be. My current photo reflects who I am on the inside. I know that I won’t achieve that completely but with your love and guidance I can maximize the woman in me. Thank you all for being here.
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Hello Vanessa.
Thanks for the welcome words. I am sorry that I cannot join the chat as the costs would be too much for me on a yearly basis. As I ma retired I have to look at my expense in another way than I did whil was still working. I hope that any answers to my messages here will be announced to me on my e-mailaddress. I will continue to listen and answer and offer help when I can.
Again thanks for accepting me in spite of the many trouble there has been with my tries to be accepted. As ypu can se that I use the real first name and not the one that due to a typing error was on my first try to get accepted.
All the best for you Vanessa
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Hi. I’m Christina. I live in Edmonton Alberta. I’m hoping to find other trans people that I can get to know. I’m still in the closet, itching to get out… But I have a lot to lose if/when I do.
I understand about being in the closet when doing this stuff, I am double nickel myself and only let a small group of folks know I crossdress. and feel the same that I stand to lose a lot at coming out. well take care. Denise.
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Hello Christina…. I am transitioning, slowly, and will lose my career, and will start over at age 65…. I want to connect with others after hiding in the woods for most of my life.
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what it is called is taking back your life and living for I know I am 61
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<p style=”text-align: left;”>hi my name is debra(david) i have been dressing up since 8 yrs old in my sisters clothes when i could. I’m currently out to most of my family and a few friends I keep going back and forth as to transitioning plus finances get in the way alot of times I’m an over the road truckdriver trying to run my own business while staying leased to a company</p>
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Hi! I learned about Transgender Heaven after joining Crossdresser Heaven. I’m not sure that I want to transition, but have considered it. I’m hoping to make new friends and learn a lot here.
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Glad to be here and thank you for setting this site up. I just started my own changes a week and a half ago.
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Thanks for the welcome.
I’m here from CDH and hope to find some friends here in the same boat as I am.
Jaime XXOO
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Hi All,
I feel honoured to be part of a new exciting place to feel safe and continue with my journey knowing that everybody has pretty much the same objective in life…… to be themselves!.
I am based in the UK and am quite a way into the NHS pathway system to the point of now journeying through my real life experience. January 2019 is the next milestone as hopefully my referral to Edinburgh for GRS pre assessment quickly approaches.
I am always free to answer any questions about my journey so far. I started self medication, went through a private bridging service, started on the NHS pathway and learned a lot of lessons on the way. I believe my story is going to be published regarding my experience of using GenderGP and Dr Webberley’s services in August and will keep everyone updated as to when it appears on the website.
With love and best wishes.
Scarlett xxx
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Welcome dear! If you’re up for sharing your story in articles or a series of articles I know that members and guests would greatly appreciate it!
*hugs*
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Ok, so I never posted an introduction to myself… Hi all I am Mia. I feel silly doing it this late. I am really excited about TGH.
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Hi Paige…..cool story….I liked it. But what does noosebomb mean….translate please? In the Nam war my nick name was “magnet-ass” for obvious reasons, along with Doc, Bac si and a-hole! How rude!
Dame Veronica
Dame Veronica Graunwolf
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Hi. I’m Christina. I live in Edmonton Alberta. I’m hoping to find other trans people that I can get to know. I’m still in the closet, itching to get out… But I have a lot to lose if/when I do.
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Thank you for this!!
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Thank you for all your hard work and dedication, Vanessa! I know my journey has been enriched by your efforts. For that I am forever grateful to you and those who have found a home and a place to give back on CDH and now TGH. I’m so happy to be a part of this team of wonderful people.
Cloe
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If Jas is the Keymaster does that make Vanessa the Gatekeeper? LOL
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Thanks Vanessa! Looking forward to continuing to explore my future path!
Cyn
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Hi Everybody!
Glad to be here. I look forward to where this site takes us.
Cheers! And Hugs!
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Thank you Vanessa for providing our Community a place to gather and call home. I wish us the best and dream of a brighter future for all!
*HUGS*
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