They have always intrigued me. They epitomize and enhance the female form. They are functional and necessary. They are beautiful and are to be desired. And I have always wanted them. Ever since I put on my sister’s dress as a young, confused teenager and looked in the mirro...
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In 1975 I was a 22-year-old undergraduate with an undeclared major and no particular ambition or goal in mind. I liked to write, so I took a course in technical writing, which led to my first (of several) closeted crossdressing fails. In my mid to late teens, I had two hobbies ...
As much as my father loved me, I was always the apple of my mother’s eye. She called me her miracle baby because she didn’t think she could have me—my sister is 11 years older than me and my brother 10. Then, at the tender age of 44, my mother decided she wanted a third chi...
I have been struggling with this feeling inside me for 45 years. As for my back story, I retired from the military in 2009 and I’m still going strong. The feelings over the last ten years were more overwhelming when it had gotten to the point that I figured I needed to reach ou...
I’ve spent most of my recent, and older life, thinking back on all those signs that I missed, and the ones I purposely avoided, ignored, took shots at, and begrudgingly followed. I’ve shared with you in retrospect what I hoped would be some commonalities to help you avoid sim...
I had the best of intentions… but… (fill in the blank with your own reasons.) I’ll go first! There were several things that I wanted to get done after my Mom passed. Many were started, some even finished, and then Dad had his ongoing year of decline. What once seemed import...
During the holidays, a friend asked me how my marriage was going. I gave the regular answer (I mean normal, not in a dismissive tone. I love my wife, and we are very happy, but I don’t want to bore anyone with it) and continued talking about the weather and clothes. She adm...
Recently, I had the occasion to go to the University of Virginia Hospital in Charlottesville to visit my granddaughter with my mom. The hospital holds many great memories for me; my granddaughter is getting great care and on a very good path to getting better. My grandson (her br...
I used to go to my aunt’s house every Thanksgiving. Those days have passed as she, my mother, and their brother have all moved on to the fabulous banquets above. I went as a kid, an adult, with my children, and then as a grandfather. As my parents aged, we used to go to Village...
I have declared and written previously that despite outward evidence to the contrary, being AMAB, I am and have embraced my reality as a woman at my core. Therefore, I AM a woman, correct? That being understood and settled, I should transition to living my womanhood full-time or ...
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