Demi:
Gender is a bit convoluted. It isn’t like you can pick up a book and a couple of hours later, you’ve got it sorted out. I’d like to say that it works that way, but clearly it does not. However, on the bright side, many here have found it useful to work with a therapist. When we think about our gender identity, or our sexuality, it isn’t easy to consider these things as they have the power to bring about MAJOR changes in our lives. These issues can be wrapped in great fear and worry and that can make it difficult for us to focus on them. A therapist can help to maintain the focus on these issues as we work through them and improve our understanding of what is going on. But, it is important to find a therapist with experience in gender issues as everyone does not have this background or interest.
As a starting point, put the following string into your favorite search engine:
transgender resources Denver colorado