Give up the habit of being critical and make your life a much more enjoyable place to be. Give up the habit of being critical. When you do, you will learn to love yourself and others unconditionally. The greatest thing I have come to understand is that every one of us wants the s...
Archive for category: Your Weekly Reset
Since it’s a new year, I thought I would share a few (article oriented) insights. One of the things that pulled me into this site and Crossdresser Heaven were the articles. Within them, I saw myself, and I realized that I wasn’t even close to being alone in my thought...
It’s been so long ago now that I opened the curtains of my home playpen. The furthest distance I would travel dressed authentically, as Char, was around the “inside” of my home with the lights low, the curtains closed, and the door locked. I called this my playpen. ...
I was reading about the Christmas season and was suddenly struck with the thought that I needed to write this article. Many of us, regardless of our views on religion enjoy the holiday season as a time to celebrate the giving nature of humanity. And as I thought about all the...
Now that just sounds crazy, but is it? The one who approaches you with a venomous hatred is in fact the one who has been abused. They are the one who is truly inside the cage because they have given up their mind and allowed others to fill it with their own projections and belief...
We all want the world to hurry up and advance far enough so it recognizes that each of us, regardless of how we present or express our “inner persona,” is worthy of respect and kindness. I think it needs to begin within our own circle of friends and acquaintances. I read som...
When I was a young kid, way back when, I remember once saying to myself, I don’t want to be a boy or a girl, I want to be right down the middle. Maybe that was an odd statement to make at such a young age, but it was something I knew deep inside. I was aware of how much more fe...
The “resistance” to our expansion is what we do in creating our own suffering because resistance causes friction. There is a quote; “In life there are problems and challenges, but suffering is a choice.” The first time I heard this, I winced and pulled back ready ...
Have you ever thought about why you are who you are (or even what you are)? I do; I think about it often. I’ve been dreaming about being a girl ever since I was a T-toddler. I was never petticoated, although I remember my sisters dressed me up once when I was five or six; put m...
Several years ago, I was driving with a company that purchased pick-up trucks from southern Alberta and delivered them to a dealership in Montana. The long hours on the road allowed me lots of time to listen to audio books. I listened to many books, but one phrase in one book tha...
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