It occurred to me this week, that so few people can really understand my reasons for choosing to live the way I do! Even more so, on the subject of surgery (SRS). The latter being quite a dramatic and extreme choice that encouraged some to tell me that, it will not change who I a...
On October the fourth 1961 Charley was born in eastern Canada. In the living room of the family home sat a playpen; a four-foot by four-foot cage with two-foot-high sides. The adults would keep a baby in a playpen during the first year or so of its life to keep the child relative...
Who am I? The other day I got up to go to work, hopefully, to finish up a job and get paid. I had just a small piece of trim to be installed, so I got dressed in skinny jeans, a very pretty blouse, and 2-inch heeled booties with the intention to change my shoes, but since I wear ...
Transcendence to the self What has flying got to do with self-acceptance? And does acceptance come in two parts? You might think it very strange to pose these two questions? If you can manage to read through and get to the end, I’ll try my best to answer these questions fro...
After things get back to normal I’ll… It might surprise some of you but my normal is pretty much the way things currently are. Most introverts like me are used to being stuck at home (by choice) and avoiding large gatherings (by choice) as well as doing our shopping online. W...
2020 has been one of the most surprising and strangest years of my life so far! The symbol used to depict the sign of Aquarius consists of stacked wavy lines. The most likely conclusion is that they represent water as it is the sign of the water bearer and yet an air sign. We mus...
A life journey! Where did it all start for me? July 1st, 1960 in an ambulance on a rail crossing in Port Elizabeth South Africa. In a very tumultuous SA during uprises etc, but this is not about politics or South Africa. It’s about a little girl who was part of twins and si...
It was a very tough thing for my mum and me to end a pattern of life that destroyed my brothers, father, and our family. My mom and I broke that cycle forever and set me free to become myself. I grew up with two older brothers that were drug addicts big time, I am so grateful I d...
Early this year I wrote of how my old self (Him) has taken his place in my life, no longer active or visible, but highly influential and critical to my life. In short, I explained how my life before transition brought me the point of plunging into my change headfirst with conf...
Feb 12, 2021, Happy Chinese New Year Chinese New Year is on the first day of the first lunar month of the year. Typically we wish each other good health, lots of wealth, and happiness. People often make New Year resolutions or set goals for themselves at the beginning of each yea...
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