I’ve spent most of my recent, and older life, thinking back on all those signs that I missed, and the ones I purposely avoided, ignored, took shots at, and begrudgingly followed. I’ve shared with you in retrospect what I hoped would be some commonalities to help you avoid sim...
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OMG! I forgot to wipe off the lipstick! It was the thought I had as I stood in line at the convenience store waiting to pay for my gas that morning. There was also that time when I happened to look down at the floor, and there was my eyeliner lying there; whoops. Explaining how l...
I try to imagine the world through others’ eyes. It makes interesting fodder for thought. We see things differently than other men, women, too. We are the crossdressers and transgender MTF that the world despises. And… yet… we are the spouses, parents, friends, colleagues, ...
I was raised Mormon. Growing up trans had been confusing for me. As far back as I can remember I had always wanted to do what the girls were doing. I resented having to wear a tie to church, while my sisters got Easter dresses. “Why is it that girls can wear pants sometimes...
I had the best of intentions… but… (fill in the blank with your own reasons.) I’ll go first! There were several things that I wanted to get done after my Mom passed. Many were started, some even finished, and then Dad had his ongoing year of decline. What once seemed import...
During the holidays, a friend asked me how my marriage was going. I gave the regular answer (I mean normal, not in a dismissive tone. I love my wife, and we are very happy, but I don’t want to bore anyone with it) and continued talking about the weather and clothes. She adm...
Recently, I had the occasion to go to the University of Virginia Hospital in Charlottesville to visit my granddaughter with my mom. The hospital holds many great memories for me; my granddaughter is getting great care and on a very good path to getting better. My grandson (her br...
Did you know you were transgender when you started crossdressing? Or did you simply find a rationalized unexplainable pleasure in wearing garments that were typically women’s clothes; so, you crossdressed. You were a crossdresser, right? You were a man that for whatever ...
“I have always been wrong.” I have been good at or excelled at my jobs, at being at the front of whatever assignment or project I had. I have always been a terrible student with excellent grades (a problematic achievement). I have always handed people to manage and he...
I wrote previously that after years of working hard to understand myself in light of my incessant desire to live as a female, searching the complexities of gender incongruity, and doing my best to suppress, repress, deny, eradicate, or compromise my feminine self because of my st...
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