Reply To: Getting misgendered

[Alexis Moon]

Hey Michelle – yeah, I paid cash, so I can’t blame the credit card! Oh well, I’m sure it’s just as confusing for cis people. To give him the benefit of the doubt, I can see where maybe he wasn’t entirely convinced calling me “sir” was the right move. I mean, if there’s confusion (and being honest, I can see why there was), maybe calling me “ma’am” would’ve been the right move? I mean, I think of myself as female, but it’s probably a bit much to expect everyone to just “know” that based on what I’m wearing…