April 28, 2021 at 3:46 am #100843
I’m with Susan More in dressing for the occasion and blending in. However there is an exception when I go out with the girls I am expected to be a bit more girlie than they are; if in skirts or dresses mine will be a little shorter, possibly in brighter colours or a ‘racier’ material, my blouse will be open an extra button, make-up a little heavier.
This isn’t for fetish but as I’m still twice as heavy as I should be dressing like that helps me blend in with the others. I didn’t believe it would but they were right.
On shopping trips and other events I dress a little low key as the dynamics are different.
Interesting to read the other thoughts here.